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<v Joanne Lockwood>Hello, everyone. My name is Joanne Lockwood and I am your host for the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Inclusion Bites podcast. In this series, I will be interviewing a number

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of amazing people and simply having a conversation around the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>subject of inclusion, belonging and generally making the world a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>better place for everyone to thrive. If you'd like to join me in the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>at seechangehappen. Co UK. That's

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<v Joanne Lockwood>be able to catch up with all of the previous shows on itunes, Spotify and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the usual places. So plug in your headphones, grab a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>decaf and let's get going. Today

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<v Joanne Lockwood>is episode 20 with the title

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Antiracism isn't Rocket science. And I have the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>absolute honour and privilege to be joined by Mural von

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Hustard. I met Mirror recently at an online

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<v Joanne Lockwood>event and discovered we both share a passion for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>inclusion. Mirror describes herself as a vessel through which

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<v Joanne Lockwood>knowledge and wisdom manifests. When

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I asked Meryl to describe her superpower, she said she

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<v Joanne Lockwood>creates solid ground. Hello,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Meryl. Welcome to the show. Hey, Joe.

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<v Merel van Haastert>Hi, Jo. Hey. Good to be

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<v Joanne Lockwood>welcome. So, who is Mural? Tell me a bit about

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<v Joanne Lockwood>yourself. Well, like you

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<v Merel van Haastert>said, Mirror von Hasttert, I live in

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<v Merel van Haastert>Rotterdam, in the Netherlands. I'm a

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<v Merel van Haastert>wise woman, a crone.

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<v Merel van Haastert>I turned 51 just a couple of days ago.

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<v Merel van Haastert>I'm a proud woman, I'm a single parent

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<v Merel van Haastert>and I have a beautiful son. That's

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<v Merel van Haastert>me privately. And I have my own

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<v Merel van Haastert>company called Solid Ground, which, again, comes back. We'll

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<v Merel van Haastert>talk about that a little bit later. I

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<v Merel van Haastert>do energy work and spiritual work,

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<v Merel van Haastert>where I guide people through

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<v Merel van Haastert>well, any problems they have,

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<v Merel van Haastert>something that comes up in their life when they get stuck,

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<v Merel van Haastert>that's my business.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So you said you're a crone? I

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<v Joanne Lockwood>know of that word, but what do you mean by a wise

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<v Joanne Lockwood>woman and crone? Well, it's the

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<v Merel van Haastert>one thing I've always been passionate about. As

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<v Merel van Haastert>a little girl, I knew I was going to thrive when I was older

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<v Merel van Haastert>and I always wanted to be a wise woman, a crone,

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<v Merel van Haastert>somebody with knowledge and sharing that knowledge

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<v Merel van Haastert>or being of service, not even sharing

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<v Merel van Haastert>knowledge that I have myself, but that comes through me. Like you said, I

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<v Merel van Haastert>feel like a vessel where knowledge and wisdom

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<v Merel van Haastert>comes through. I always wanted to be this, but it took me a very long

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<v Merel van Haastert>time. Well, of course, in years, but also to

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<v Merel van Haastert>feel confident enough to stand my ground

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<v Merel van Haastert>there. Now I'm 50, I'm this

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<v Merel van Haastert>young, new chrome yay. I'm happy about

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<v Merel van Haastert>that. So I'm actually finally in the place

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<v Merel van Haastert>where I wanted to be. You were born

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<v Joanne Lockwood>to be 50. Basically, you were born to be in your have

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<v Joanne Lockwood>this lived experience that you can share and amplify for others.

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<v Merel van Haastert>Yeah, I've always wanted to be this and I'm

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<v Merel van Haastert>feeling like I've got a lot more years to go, so I'm finally

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<v Merel van Haastert>there. This has all been preparation before. It so when I

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<v Merel van Haastert>turned 30, I didn't have that, like, oh, God, I'm turning 30, I'm turning

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<v Merel van Haastert>old. I'm actually quite going like, Yay. Finally.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Superb. I know what you mean.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Each decade you find something more about yourself, don't you? And I think

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I've certainly learned a lot more about myself since I turned 50. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I think 50 is the new 40. We used to say this about our 40s,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>but I think we're much wiser now. In our 50s.

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<v Merel van Haastert>I've got this new sense of energy, this new

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<v Merel van Haastert>sense of being that isn't so rocky. I don't want to

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<v Merel van Haastert>be in my 20s again. I liked it and I liked being a youth,

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<v Merel van Haastert>but it's so uncertain. I'm not that uncertain anymore.

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<v Merel van Haastert>I know who I am and what the world. So I can now

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<v Merel van Haastert>exchange between the world and me more than I could

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<v Merel van Haastert>when I was younger. And I've got something to say,

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<v Merel van Haastert>not just stuff that I've learned, but also

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<v Merel van Haastert>I listen much better to people because you're

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<v Merel van Haastert>not constantly taking it personal. Because I know who I

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<v Merel van Haastert>am, I've learned. Very good point.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yes. I think we stopped trying to be anybody else other than ourselves,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>haven't we? Yeah, we don't need to be. We've been other

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<v Joanne Lockwood>people all our lives. A parent, a child, a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>sibling. And now we're us, aren't we? I think that's where it comes in.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Fantastic. Very good age. So I actually think

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<v Merel van Haastert>it's better than I thought it was. Of course, as a young girl, you

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<v Merel van Haastert>don't know what it's like of a young person. You don't know what that's going

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<v Merel van Haastert>to be like. But I want to tell my

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<v Merel van Haastert>younger self, or even other young people going like, but this is

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<v Merel van Haastert>awesome. Hurry, come 50

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<v Joanne Lockwood>quickly.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Don't worry about it. It's good. Yeah. Welcome to the club.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Fantastic. So we got chatting the other day

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<v Joanne Lockwood>at this online event, and antiracism

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<v Joanne Lockwood>is something that we, as white people,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>probably don't understand enough. So why isn't it rocket

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<v Joanne Lockwood>science? Why isn't it rocket science?

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<v Merel van Haastert>If you take off the blinders

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<v Merel van Haastert>that you can do yourself, it is nothing that is

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<v Merel van Haastert>out there that you don't know you already know.

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<v Merel van Haastert>All the information is there. There's nothing you have to do, you

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<v Merel van Haastert>just have to see it.

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<v Merel van Haastert>That is, of course, difficult because there are a lot of

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<v Merel van Haastert>layers put upon us,

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<v Merel van Haastert>indoctrination and all sorts of ideas and

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<v Merel van Haastert>stuff that are put on top of us.

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<v Merel van Haastert>But your soul knows, so there's nothing new

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<v Merel van Haastert>about this. There's nothing that

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<v Merel van Haastert>you won't understand. It's your

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<v Merel van Haastert>defence mechanism that kicks in, but that's it. The

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<v Merel van Haastert>rest of it, you just have to listen and then go like,

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<v Merel van Haastert>oh, but that's actually quite normal, that people

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<v Merel van Haastert>are the same, everybody's the same. That skin colour doesn't

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<v Merel van Haastert>do anything. There's nothing

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<v Merel van Haastert>there. When we are young

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<v Merel van Haastert>and we're going to school for the first time, you

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<v Merel van Haastert>are taught to help others, to see people as equals.

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<v Merel van Haastert>As young kids, we have no

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<v Merel van Haastert>Philtre put in there yet

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<v Merel van Haastert>to see people as different. So if you go back to

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<v Merel van Haastert>that and feel like, oh, yeah, but I never

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<v Merel van Haastert>saw my friend different because she or he

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<v Merel van Haastert>had a different skin colour, it was, know, Jack

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<v Merel van Haastert>or whoever daisy it was. And if you go

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<v Merel van Haastert>back to that, that's that's, then from there, you can understand

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<v Merel van Haastert>all, uh,

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<v Merel van Haastert>different strategies that are used to put

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<v Merel van Haastert>racism and white supremacy in place.

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<v Merel van Haastert>Does that make sense to you? Yeah, it does. But

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<v Joanne Lockwood>as a white person myself, it's.

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<v Merel van Haastert>Really. Challenging to sort of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>think about racism. And it's not about ourselves. It's about

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the societal and structural racism more

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<v Joanne Lockwood>as much as it is about the casual racism and the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>vindictive or discriminatory racism that occurs in day to day life.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So as a white person, how do I drill through that? How do I try

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and really unpack about? Because it's not about the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>racism I've caused, is it? It's about the racism that exists in society and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the inequity that occurs. Yeah, I think that

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<v Merel van Haastert>white people take it very personal

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<v Merel van Haastert>because you take it as an individual, as an individual CEO. But

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<v Merel van Haastert>I don't have these beliefs. I don't see you any differently.

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<v Merel van Haastert>But it's a system. It's a system there

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<v Merel van Haastert>that you were born into.

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<v Merel van Haastert>It's not something that you did. You didn't

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<v Merel van Haastert>think like, okay, let's discriminate against

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<v Merel van Haastert>whomever or whatever it could be

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<v Merel van Haastert>gender or sexuality. You don't think

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<v Merel van Haastert>consciously think, okay, let's discriminate. It's a system

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<v Merel van Haastert>that you're brought into. Like, you go to school and you learn about your ABCs

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<v Merel van Haastert>and you learn about calculation. And through

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<v Merel van Haastert>all these messages you get how society

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<v Merel van Haastert>works. And then you start as a child, you start relating

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<v Merel van Haastert>to, okay, my parents ask this of me, or Society asks

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<v Merel van Haastert>that of me. And that's how you learn

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<v Merel van Haastert>how the world works. So what white

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<v Merel van Haastert>people forget is that there is

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<v Merel van Haastert>white culture. It

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<v Merel van Haastert>it's the set of values and norms and all that stuff

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<v Merel van Haastert>that you get imprinted. And that

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<v Merel van Haastert>imprint is how you act in the world.

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<v Merel van Haastert>And that is not your soul. It has nothing to do

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<v Merel van Haastert>with you being a human. That's how I see

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<v Merel van Haastert>it. So is that the same as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>kind of the default is white? So if we're looking for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a photograph, the Default photograph is of a white person.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>We're looking at pictures of in your various faith groups,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>pictures of our faith leaders, of historical faith leaders. They're

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<v Joanne Lockwood>always shown as white people, aren't they, with beards and golden

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<v Joanne Lockwood>hair. So we've built this very whitest default sort

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of way of looking at the world, haven't we? And when we think as a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>white person, we always think about white people. We don't think in

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<v Joanne Lockwood>our narrative about non white people as part of our

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<v Joanne Lockwood>picture, do we? No, we don't.

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<v Merel van Haastert>You don't even realise that it happens because you're

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<v Merel van Haastert>so used to all the books being with the same

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<v Merel van Haastert>There are a little bit of in the background or on the

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<v Merel van Haastert>like it's like you know that there's a little bit of a

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<v Merel van Haastert>blanket of the world with different groups, but

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<v Merel van Haastert>the narrative is white. But we never call

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<v Merel van Haastert>it that way. We never mention it, that

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<v Merel van Haastert>you are a specific group.

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<v Merel van Haastert>That's where the how do you say

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<v Merel van Haastert>that decolonization

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<v Merel van Haastert>starts when dismantling starts when you

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<v Merel van Haastert>realise that you are of white culture. And

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<v Merel van Haastert>then you can start to see the difference between system

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<v Merel van Haastert>and the individual and how that works.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>You're aware of my gender transition and my background.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And ideally, in the same way we see white as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>default, we often see men male as default as well. In a lot of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>now see that default from a different

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of seeing all this inequity of representation. I don't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>about gender, but I think unless you've

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<v Joanne Lockwood>ourselves, we can never stop being white and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>therefore our privilege is the same as water and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>oxygen. It's all around us and we can't tell it's there because we

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<v Merel van Haastert>never get away from it. It is not something that you take off

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<v Merel van Haastert>the privilege is there. You can't put it away. You can't say

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<v Merel van Haastert>to, when you're going through security at an airport, say

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<v Merel van Haastert>to this officer that's standing there, well, treat me

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<v Merel van Haastert>It doesn't work that way. So that's also why you don't see

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<v Merel van Haastert>it. I think that you touched upon something that I was thinking

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<v Merel van Haastert>And I'm saying what you just said,

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<v Merel van Haastert>I've had some breakdown in my life too,

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<v Merel van Haastert>like divorce and losing

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<v Merel van Haastert>There needs to be a bit of a breakdown that gives you

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<v Merel van Haastert>strangely enough, you have an advantage when you are

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<v Merel van Haastert>In white people. Of course there's a standard. We have a hierarchy

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<v Merel van Haastert>within white people too. But nobody fully

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<v Merel van Haastert>it's like something that you you turn

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<v Merel van Haastert>out of yourself, you, you know, like and that's not the right word.

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<v Merel van Haastert>You zoom out of yourself a little bit and

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<v Merel van Haastert>that's this break, this breakdown of norms

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<v Merel van Haastert>and values that helps you to see other

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<v Joanne Lockwood>If you look at some of the terminology and phraseologies that's evolved

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<v Joanne Lockwood>these sort of various terms for categorising people who are not

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<v Joanne Lockwood>such for whiteness, is there? We don't talk about a bit

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<v Joanne Lockwood>white or very white or English white or brown or

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<v Joanne Lockwood>default. Some of these terms, I understand, are

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<v Joanne Lockwood>quite maybe not offensive to some people, but they certainly

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<v Joanne Lockwood>are stereotyping people, they're grouping people that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>not every person who is not white is the same. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>we kind of marginalise and erase lived experiences by categorising

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<v Joanne Lockwood>ethnics. And that so

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<v Joanne Lockwood>understates people's lived experience as a community, doesn't it?

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<v Merel van Haastert>Yeah, and it does, because

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<v Merel van Haastert>It all is related to as not white

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<v Merel van Haastert>or default. In the centering is still

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<v Merel van Haastert>And that's how we do it. At first

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<v Merel van Haastert>it's really weird, actually. Yeah,

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<v Merel van Haastert>I started laughing a little bit white, less

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<v Merel van Haastert>Actually, there is a little bit of it

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<v Merel van Haastert>because I live in the Netherlands and we have some

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<v Merel van Haastert>Polish people here. We don't consider them white, we

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I had this conversation about a year ago with someone and we're talking about

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and there are bad immigrants, aren't there? And I was talking to this person

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<v Joanne Lockwood>who was Dutch themselves. I said, well, as a Dutch person in the UK, you're

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a good immigrant. We like Dutch people, French people we

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<v Joanne Lockwood>make our own jokes about, and Germans we make our own jokes about, and Italians

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<v Joanne Lockwood>we make other jokes around. But if you came

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that kind of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>70s image of communism we see these

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<v Joanne Lockwood>people as less intelligent. We see them as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>chancers, often maybe more

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it's shocking to hear the language in the media, the way that people are

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<v Joanne Lockwood>People would say people from Estonia are good immigrants because they're kind of clean

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and very well spoken, whereas someone from Lithuania sounds

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a bit darker. There's a whole load of new

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<v Joanne Lockwood>stereotypes are coming now and again. Racism is more

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<v Joanne Lockwood>than just white people and black people. There's also racism

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<v Joanne Lockwood>within communities, within faith groups, within religions. Isn't.

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<v Merel van Haastert>Have probably in England the same. But I'm going

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<v Merel van Haastert>to ask you about that because in the Netherlands, within the country,

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<v Merel van Haastert>there's also we have these

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<v Merel van Haastert>and I lived in Thailand for a while

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<v Merel van Haastert>and I worked there and it's a huge country, of

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<v Merel van Haastert>course, not one of the biggest, but huge country. And then

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<v Merel van Haastert>I was thinking about the Netherlands. If you do,

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<v Merel van Haastert>you're through it, right? It's like one and a half hours

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<v Merel van Haastert>or almost maybe two, and it's done.

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<v Merel van Haastert>And then we have this. Then I think

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<v Merel van Haastert>label people just from the area they're from. It is the

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<v Merel van Haastert>Netherlands. We're a post stamp.

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<v Merel van Haastert>But even there, there are parts from the Netherlands. Where

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<v Merel van Haastert>that you're more intelligent or not. Is this going on in England too?

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I think we would call it white supremacy. We have

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a lot of English nationalism going on about anything

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And inevitably that leads people to be

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<v Joanne Lockwood>racist because what they mean when they talk about being British, they

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<v Joanne Lockwood>mean white British, they don't mean whatever

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<v Joanne Lockwood>certain section of society that still sees that and that's abhorrent to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>me. But again, part of this white is

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of rejection of the Black Lives Matter movement. There's a lot of fight back

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And it's shocking to see, but those kind

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of attitudes still exist. But they do. We saw it with Brexit, we saw it

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<v Joanne Lockwood>with this nationalistic protectionism. We want to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And it's hard fighting back around that. And I don't even necessarily think that's

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<v Joanne Lockwood>privilege speaking. In fact, a lot of these people, I would say, are not speaking

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<v Joanne Lockwood>from a point of privilege, they're speaking from a point of nationalism. Almost

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<v Joanne Lockwood>like this, I dare say. I don't want to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>stress too far to say fascist views, extreme right wing

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of it is spelling from that, I think. Yeah,

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<v Merel van Haastert>it's the same in the Netherlands.

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<v Merel van Haastert>England and the Netherlands have a bit of have

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<v Merel van Haastert>similarities where they colonised parts of this

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<v Merel van Haastert>You still have the Commonwealth. I think that's one of the words

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<v Merel van Haastert>that's used in the Netherlands. We don't use it,

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<v Merel van Haastert>trying to get the conversation

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<v Merel van Haastert>going about systemic racism and white supremacy,

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<v Merel van Haastert>people still keep yelling at these people with a different

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<v Merel van Haastert>don't consider they never thought that

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<v Merel van Haastert>Suriname was part of the Netherlands. Of course it

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<v Merel van Haastert>But we hear too, Dutch means

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<v Merel van Haastert>else. 70%, that means 70% of the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you're touching on colonialism now, which is the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and we give you our religion and destroy your culture and we steal

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<v Joanne Lockwood>your wealth and your

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<v Joanne Lockwood>didn't look at it with the right lens. I've

399
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<v Joanne Lockwood>replayed that visit with a different lens and basically

400
00:25:38.340 --> 00:25:42.124
<v Joanne Lockwood>white privileged people went to Egypt, dug

401
00:25:42.172 --> 00:25:45.600
<v Joanne Lockwood>holes in their ground, stole all their goods, brought them back to the UK.

402
00:25:46.100 --> 00:25:49.744
<v Joanne Lockwood>And it was almost like

403
00:25:49.942 --> 00:25:53.764
<v Joanne Lockwood>we were the colonial masters and we felt entitled to do that.

404
00:25:53.802 --> 00:25:56.868
<v Joanne Lockwood>And I look at it now and thinking all the stuff we hold at the

405
00:25:56.874 --> 00:26:00.576
<v Joanne Lockwood>British Museum, that's from Egypt, from Greece, from ancient

406
00:26:00.608 --> 00:26:04.170
<v Joanne Lockwood>civilizations that we hold and

407
00:26:04.780 --> 00:26:08.248
<v Joanne Lockwood>quite rightly, the governments of these countries want their

408
00:26:08.334 --> 00:26:12.184
<v Joanne Lockwood>artefacts back. And I think it's important that we

409
00:26:12.222 --> 00:26:15.956
<v Joanne Lockwood>understand whose artefacts they are and the culturalism about where

410
00:26:15.998 --> 00:26:19.640
<v Joanne Lockwood>they came from. And this is again part of the British

411
00:26:19.720 --> 00:26:23.244
<v Joanne Lockwood>or the Western white culture is that we

412
00:26:23.282 --> 00:26:26.664
<v Joanne Lockwood>feel an incentive entitlement to the world's

413
00:26:26.712 --> 00:26:30.476
<v Joanne Lockwood>history. The white people wrote history. And actually what we need to do

414
00:26:30.498 --> 00:26:34.130
<v Joanne Lockwood>is understand that white people didn't write history. White people

415
00:26:34.580 --> 00:26:38.064
<v Joanne Lockwood>created some bad history and some bad events. But

416
00:26:38.102 --> 00:26:41.584
<v Joanne Lockwood>there's plenty of cultures out there that were managing quite happily

417
00:26:41.632 --> 00:26:44.500
<v Joanne Lockwood>without white people coming along and giving them religion,

418
00:26:44.920 --> 00:26:46.950
<v Joanne Lockwood>stealing all their goods. Yeah,

419
00:26:49.160 --> 00:26:52.720
<v Merel van Haastert>I'm not so good with names, but there was a woman that recently

420
00:26:52.800 --> 00:26:56.584
<v Merel van Haastert>said or said like, our history does not

421
00:26:56.622 --> 00:27:00.232
<v Merel van Haastert>exist unless white people were there once white people

422
00:27:00.286 --> 00:27:03.160
<v Merel van Haastert>came there, history all of a sudden

423
00:27:03.660 --> 00:27:07.100
<v Merel van Haastert>existed again from their lens

424
00:27:07.920 --> 00:27:11.244
<v Merel van Haastert>through the white lens. And it's in our

425
00:27:11.282 --> 00:27:15.016
<v Merel van Haastert>genes somehow, because probably you've

426
00:27:15.048 --> 00:27:18.430
<v Merel van Haastert>had this experience as well, that you

427
00:27:18.800 --> 00:27:22.384
<v Merel van Haastert>grow up and you know that there's a big world and you want to see

428
00:27:22.422 --> 00:27:26.176
<v Merel van Haastert>it and you travel it. Right. You've got a passport that gives you

429
00:27:26.198 --> 00:27:29.916
<v Merel van Haastert>access to it. I have a passport, Dutch passport,

430
00:27:29.948 --> 00:27:33.508
<v Merel van Haastert>that gives me almost access to almost anywhere in the world,

431
00:27:33.674 --> 00:27:36.310
<v Merel van Haastert>and I don't even think about it. And

432
00:27:38.600 --> 00:27:42.260
<v Merel van Haastert>it means that we are so used to thinking

433
00:27:42.330 --> 00:27:45.608
<v Merel van Haastert>that we can just go and be

434
00:27:45.694 --> 00:27:49.236
<v Merel van Haastert>anywhere without asking it's

435
00:27:49.268 --> 00:27:53.112
<v Merel van Haastert>not even asking. It's just considering the other

436
00:27:53.166 --> 00:27:56.856
<v Merel van Haastert>person. This is what we've

437
00:27:56.888 --> 00:28:00.620
<v Merel van Haastert>grown up with. And that's this system thing. Again,

438
00:28:00.690 --> 00:28:03.550
<v Merel van Haastert>this is not personal. It's this system thing that

439
00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:07.470
<v Merel van Haastert>our ancestors have given us

440
00:28:08.020 --> 00:28:11.584
<v Merel van Haastert>this idea that the world is

441
00:28:11.622 --> 00:28:15.424
<v Merel van Haastert>ours and we can take whatever we

442
00:28:15.462 --> 00:28:19.248
<v Merel van Haastert>want with it. Just to mention because there's going to

443
00:28:19.254 --> 00:28:22.740
<v Merel van Haastert>be criticism here. It happens every time.

444
00:28:22.890 --> 00:28:26.208
<v Merel van Haastert>And that is like but in all those countries

445
00:28:26.384 --> 00:28:30.068
<v Merel van Haastert>and years before racism, like slavery came,

446
00:28:30.154 --> 00:28:33.944
<v Merel van Haastert>all these other cultures also did enslave people and

447
00:28:33.982 --> 00:28:36.810
<v Merel van Haastert>stuff. Yeah, that happened, too. But

448
00:28:37.500 --> 00:28:40.936
<v Merel van Haastert>the Dutch, the English, the Spanish, the Portuguese, the

449
00:28:40.958 --> 00:28:44.648
<v Merel van Haastert>French what we did was

450
00:28:44.734 --> 00:28:47.580
<v Merel van Haastert>we made it a worldwide economy.

451
00:28:49.680 --> 00:28:53.308
<v Merel van Haastert>We put it on a global scale. That is,

452
00:28:53.394 --> 00:28:56.030
<v Merel van Haastert>to me, what racism is. We made it

453
00:28:57.600 --> 00:29:01.344
<v Merel van Haastert>our default economy. Yeah.

454
00:29:01.382 --> 00:29:05.008
<v Joanne Lockwood>And we built the wealth of our country off the back of that.

455
00:29:05.094 --> 00:29:08.864
<v Joanne Lockwood>So our power and privilege today has actually

456
00:29:08.902 --> 00:29:12.244
<v Joanne Lockwood>been built off the wealth that we plundered and

457
00:29:12.282 --> 00:29:16.048
<v Joanne Lockwood>appropriated from these other cultures. We spread

458
00:29:16.064 --> 00:29:19.590
<v Merel van Haastert>it worldwide. We spread it globally. And of course, there was

459
00:29:20.440 --> 00:29:24.136
<v Merel van Haastert>the Chinese and Mongolians with Genghis Khan and

460
00:29:24.158 --> 00:29:27.370
<v Merel van Haastert>Genghis Khan, or how do you say that? And

461
00:29:28.460 --> 00:29:31.530
<v Merel van Haastert>there are Middle Eastern cultures that had

462
00:29:31.900 --> 00:29:35.112
<v Merel van Haastert>black people from Africa as slaves, all that

463
00:29:35.166 --> 00:29:38.776
<v Merel van Haastert>existed. But around about one,

464
00:29:38.798 --> 00:29:42.364
<v Merel van Haastert>four hundreds, we started to lift it through to a

465
00:29:42.402 --> 00:29:45.950
<v Merel van Haastert>level that is where we are now.

466
00:29:46.960 --> 00:29:50.620
<v Merel van Haastert>That's a continuum. We also started

467
00:29:50.690 --> 00:29:54.224
<v Joanne Lockwood>using science to justify it. I was

468
00:29:54.262 --> 00:29:57.824
<v Joanne Lockwood>reading some shocking journals, some

469
00:29:57.862 --> 00:30:01.670
<v Joanne Lockwood>summary journals from the 1819 hundreds, where

470
00:30:02.440 --> 00:30:06.192
<v Joanne Lockwood>eminent professors and scientists at the time were measuring

471
00:30:06.336 --> 00:30:09.812
<v Joanne Lockwood>people's skulls and determining that

472
00:30:09.946 --> 00:30:13.312
<v Joanne Lockwood>white men had to be more intelligent because of their skull

473
00:30:13.376 --> 00:30:17.060
<v Joanne Lockwood>shape. Black people, because of the way their skull

474
00:30:17.220 --> 00:30:21.064
<v Joanne Lockwood>was developing and the size and proportions, meant their brain could

475
00:30:21.102 --> 00:30:24.856
<v Joanne Lockwood>never be as intelligent as a white person's. And even at

476
00:30:24.878 --> 00:30:28.348
<v Joanne Lockwood>the same time, we were looking at women's skulls and saying that women couldn't be

477
00:30:28.354 --> 00:30:31.608
<v Joanne Lockwood>as intelligent as a man because the shape and size of their skull.

478
00:30:31.704 --> 00:30:35.052
<v Joanne Lockwood>So we were using science to justify white

479
00:30:35.106 --> 00:30:38.572
<v Joanne Lockwood>supremacy. And that narrative has

480
00:30:38.626 --> 00:30:42.472
<v Joanne Lockwood>continued in that feeling that white people are more intelligent.

481
00:30:42.536 --> 00:30:46.352
<v Joanne Lockwood>Black people or non white people, non men are less

482
00:30:46.406 --> 00:30:50.256
<v Joanne Lockwood>intelligent because there's no way their brain capacity can be as good

483
00:30:50.278 --> 00:30:53.444
<v Joanne Lockwood>as a white person, a white man. And we've seen

484
00:30:53.482 --> 00:30:56.832
<v Joanne Lockwood>that through this kind of white Victorian

485
00:30:56.896 --> 00:31:00.596
<v Joanne Lockwood>Edwardian privilege in the UK being propagated that

486
00:31:00.618 --> 00:31:03.976
<v Joanne Lockwood>this is a high privileged society that has this

487
00:31:03.998 --> 00:31:07.496
<v Joanne Lockwood>entitled belief that they are better. Yeah, we

488
00:31:07.518 --> 00:31:08.090
<v Merel van Haastert>think

489
00:31:11.500 --> 00:31:15.192
<v Merel van Haastert>we're thinking that we've evolved past all this violence, past

490
00:31:15.326 --> 00:31:18.910
<v Merel van Haastert>all this stupidity, and we are this

491
00:31:19.680 --> 00:31:23.484
<v Merel van Haastert>ratio, very well behaved, got

492
00:31:23.522 --> 00:31:27.324
<v Merel van Haastert>the best norms and values in the world. That's what we

493
00:31:27.362 --> 00:31:31.132
<v Merel van Haastert>grow up with. And people go like, well, slavery

494
00:31:31.196 --> 00:31:34.784
<v Merel van Haastert>was abolished, I think it was 40 years earlier at your

495
00:31:34.822 --> 00:31:37.360
<v Merel van Haastert>place than ours. We were quite late.

496
00:31:39.140 --> 00:31:42.740
<v Merel van Haastert>But it's not in the past with this, COVID-19

497
00:31:43.320 --> 00:31:46.900
<v Merel van Haastert>they're testing vaccines in Africa

498
00:31:47.720 --> 00:31:50.070
<v Merel van Haastert>on black people. They are.

499
00:31:51.560 --> 00:31:54.704
<v Merel van Haastert>That is classic racism. That is

500
00:31:54.762 --> 00:31:58.040
<v Merel van Haastert>classic white supremacy still going

501
00:31:58.110 --> 00:32:01.736
<v Merel van Haastert>on. We can't test it in our country because that wouldn't be

502
00:32:01.758 --> 00:32:05.130
<v Joanne Lockwood>allowed. But we can go somewhere else where their standards are less,

503
00:32:05.900 --> 00:32:09.436
<v Joanne Lockwood>they value life less, therefore we can get away with it. It is

504
00:32:09.458 --> 00:32:13.084
<v Joanne Lockwood>shocking. And I'm not sure how it's justified whether

505
00:32:13.202 --> 00:32:16.812
<v Joanne Lockwood>we've identified the fact that disproportionately black

506
00:32:16.866 --> 00:32:20.608
<v Joanne Lockwood>people are affected more by COVID and therefore it's justified on that bound, I

507
00:32:20.614 --> 00:32:22.210
<v Joanne Lockwood>don't know. But you're right.

508
00:32:24.660 --> 00:32:27.680
<v Joanne Lockwood>We even still call it the Third World. In some areas,

509
00:32:28.180 --> 00:32:31.792
<v Joanne Lockwood>we're the first world. I really

510
00:32:31.846 --> 00:32:35.504
<v Merel van Haastert>believe this. I'm not above any of this. I've

511
00:32:35.552 --> 00:32:38.964
<v Merel van Haastert>believed this. I thought indeed that we in

512
00:32:39.002 --> 00:32:42.820
<v Merel van Haastert>west, this Western and we're talking some specific

513
00:32:42.890 --> 00:32:45.972
<v Merel van Haastert>countries, right? England, the Netherlands, Germany,

514
00:32:46.116 --> 00:32:48.680
<v Merel van Haastert>Denmark, the Scandinavian,

515
00:32:49.900 --> 00:32:53.704
<v Merel van Haastert>France, Spain and Portugal. A

516
00:32:53.742 --> 00:32:57.356
<v Merel van Haastert>little bit of Italy and

517
00:32:57.458 --> 00:33:01.244
<v Merel van Haastert>Switzerland. That's it. And I thought we

518
00:33:01.282 --> 00:33:04.888
<v Merel van Haastert>had it going on. I really thought we had democracy.

519
00:33:04.984 --> 00:33:07.340
<v Merel van Haastert>We have ratio, we have science,

520
00:33:08.900 --> 00:33:12.636
<v Merel van Haastert>we're living in a safe country, there's

521
00:33:12.668 --> 00:33:16.464
<v Merel van Haastert>no war, there was nothing going on. I

522
00:33:16.502 --> 00:33:19.920
<v Merel van Haastert>really believed that there were Third world

523
00:33:19.990 --> 00:33:23.652
<v Merel van Haastert>countries where the only thing they had to do was

524
00:33:23.706 --> 00:33:27.524
<v Merel van Haastert>go up on our level and we needed to help them get up to our

525
00:33:27.562 --> 00:33:30.630
<v Merel van Haastert>level and then the world would be fine.

526
00:33:34.360 --> 00:33:37.796
<v Joanne Lockwood>So what we're saying is we need black people to act like white people in

527
00:33:37.818 --> 00:33:41.416
<v Joanne Lockwood>order to be as accepted in the world, in the same way we want

528
00:33:41.438 --> 00:33:44.888
<v Joanne Lockwood>women to act like men so that they're accepted in the world. So we want

529
00:33:44.894 --> 00:33:48.444
<v Joanne Lockwood>to assimilate everyone to the same ideals as being a white

530
00:33:48.482 --> 00:33:52.284
<v Joanne Lockwood>man. And isn't that what we're doing with privilege? We

531
00:33:52.322 --> 00:33:56.124
<v Joanne Lockwood>assume that this privileged structure we

532
00:33:56.162 --> 00:33:59.824
<v Joanne Lockwood>have in society when our Western society is

533
00:33:59.862 --> 00:34:03.504
<v Joanne Lockwood>all based around this default norm, isn't it? Which is the white

534
00:34:03.542 --> 00:34:07.216
<v Joanne Lockwood>man. And the further you stray away from that,

535
00:34:07.318 --> 00:34:11.148
<v Joanne Lockwood>the less valuable you're seen, the less worthy you're

536
00:34:11.164 --> 00:34:14.960
<v Joanne Lockwood>seen. And that's the challenge, isn't it? And when we put intersexuality

537
00:34:15.040 --> 00:34:18.500
<v Joanne Lockwood>into the mix, where we've got people's age, race,

538
00:34:19.320 --> 00:34:22.708
<v Joanne Lockwood>faith, beliefs and gender and sexuality in there,

539
00:34:22.874 --> 00:34:26.536
<v Joanne Lockwood>that leads to massive more inequities, doesn't it? Yeah.

540
00:34:26.718 --> 00:34:30.232
<v Merel van Haastert>And then that also explains why white people

541
00:34:30.286 --> 00:34:33.272
<v Merel van Haastert>think that if you're living in

542
00:34:33.326 --> 00:34:37.020
<v Merel van Haastert>Jamaica and you're not making it yet in the world,

543
00:34:37.090 --> 00:34:40.876
<v Merel van Haastert>that it's your personal fault that you're not making it,

544
00:34:40.898 --> 00:34:44.590
<v Merel van Haastert>or that you're poor, that it's a personal thing.

545
00:34:44.960 --> 00:34:48.770
<v Merel van Haastert>And all this stuff has never been personal.

546
00:34:49.540 --> 00:34:53.264
<v Merel van Haastert>It's just to make this system work, to make this

547
00:34:53.302 --> 00:34:56.752
<v Merel van Haastert>economy work, to make this power work that we

548
00:34:56.806 --> 00:35:00.050
<v Merel van Haastert>have and keep it in place. And

549
00:35:00.760 --> 00:35:04.116
<v Merel van Haastert>once you stray from it, you will

550
00:35:04.218 --> 00:35:08.020
<v Merel van Haastert>immediately feel that the system does not want you to

551
00:35:08.090 --> 00:35:11.716
<v Merel van Haastert>change. Because the

552
00:35:11.738 --> 00:35:15.572
<v Joanne Lockwood>Western world we've been talking about, the original Eurovision Contest

553
00:35:15.636 --> 00:35:19.464
<v Joanne Lockwood>countries, we

554
00:35:19.502 --> 00:35:23.320
<v Joanne Lockwood>built our economies on power and wealth and control,

555
00:35:23.390 --> 00:35:26.716
<v Joanne Lockwood>haven't we? If we don't have control of the markets, we don't have control of

556
00:35:26.738 --> 00:35:30.492
<v Joanne Lockwood>the wealth, then we lose our status amongst our

557
00:35:30.546 --> 00:35:34.264
<v Joanne Lockwood>friends, if you like, our other privileged countries. So we're always competing

558
00:35:34.312 --> 00:35:37.544
<v Joanne Lockwood>against who we see as our competing

559
00:35:37.592 --> 00:35:41.436
<v Joanne Lockwood>economies, rather than seeing other countries

560
00:35:41.548 --> 00:35:45.120
<v Joanne Lockwood>like India and China or Russia or someone who is

561
00:35:45.270 --> 00:35:49.068
<v Joanne Lockwood>a bad or lesser part of the world. We want to compete,

562
00:35:49.244 --> 00:35:52.932
<v Joanne Lockwood>be more equal with better than the French, better than the Germans, better than

563
00:35:52.986 --> 00:35:56.836
<v Joanne Lockwood>the Dutch, better than the Americans, and we assume that

564
00:35:56.858 --> 00:36:00.068
<v Joanne Lockwood>everybody else has the same attitude. But in reality, people

565
00:36:00.154 --> 00:36:03.592
<v Joanne Lockwood>value different things out of life and society, don't they?

566
00:36:03.646 --> 00:36:07.480
<v Merel van Haastert>Yeah. Well, it is what

567
00:36:07.550 --> 00:36:11.192
<v Merel van Haastert>white people fear. This is the fear that we will

568
00:36:11.246 --> 00:36:14.996
<v Merel van Haastert>lose something. I don't

569
00:36:15.028 --> 00:36:18.632
<v Merel van Haastert>think that if you would ask somebody that they really

570
00:36:18.686 --> 00:36:19.290
<v Merel van Haastert>know

571
00:36:22.400 --> 00:36:26.124
<v Merel van Haastert>what losing means, then but it's like position

572
00:36:26.242 --> 00:36:27.950
<v Merel van Haastert>in this world where you mentioned

573
00:36:30.420 --> 00:36:33.568
<v Merel van Haastert>we think that we're going to fall back

574
00:36:33.734 --> 00:36:35.970
<v Merel van Haastert>to a lesser standard

575
00:36:36.660 --> 00:36:40.480
<v Merel van Haastert>somehow. This is what we think. But that's only because

576
00:36:40.550 --> 00:36:44.292
<v Merel van Haastert>we see other cultures in other parts of the world as

577
00:36:44.346 --> 00:36:45.990
<v Merel van Haastert>less as us.

578
00:36:49.240 --> 00:36:52.900
<v Merel van Haastert>Of course I don't want to go all lives matter,

579
00:36:52.970 --> 00:36:56.632
<v Merel van Haastert>because of course that's true, but the system says

580
00:36:56.686 --> 00:36:58.090
<v Merel van Haastert>to us that

581
00:37:00.460 --> 00:37:04.152
<v Merel van Haastert>it matters. It matters where you come from. And

582
00:37:04.206 --> 00:37:07.790
<v Merel van Haastert>that's why we think that the rest of the world is

583
00:37:09.840 --> 00:37:13.080
<v Merel van Haastert>strange and violent

584
00:37:13.240 --> 00:37:16.924
<v Merel van Haastert>and people have values and

585
00:37:16.962 --> 00:37:20.450
<v Merel van Haastert>norms that are not ours. So then there must be bad.

586
00:37:22.500 --> 00:37:26.320
<v Merel van Haastert>If you step away from that, you will find

587
00:37:26.390 --> 00:37:29.952
<v Merel van Haastert>that people have, of course, other

588
00:37:30.006 --> 00:37:33.764
<v Merel van Haastert>values and other ideas about life and

589
00:37:33.802 --> 00:37:37.284
<v Merel van Haastert>that could actually be enriching. It is enriching to have

590
00:37:37.322 --> 00:37:41.044
<v Merel van Haastert>people think differently than you and it's not

591
00:37:41.082 --> 00:37:44.536
<v Merel van Haastert>a step back. Everything that comes into our country, the

592
00:37:44.558 --> 00:37:47.320
<v Merel van Haastert>Netherlands, I'm assuming it's the same in England.

593
00:37:49.740 --> 00:37:52.410
<v Merel van Haastert>If more people with the

594
00:37:53.180 --> 00:37:56.876
<v Merel van Haastert>Islam faith come in, we immediately think,

595
00:37:56.978 --> 00:38:00.748
<v Merel van Haastert>oh, well, we will start going

596
00:38:00.834 --> 00:38:04.300
<v Merel van Haastert>oppressing women again. Our

597
00:38:04.370 --> 00:38:08.040
<v Merel van Haastert>feministic ideas will

598
00:38:08.130 --> 00:38:11.856
<v Merel van Haastert>take a plunge. It is not true. It

599
00:38:11.878 --> 00:38:15.650
<v Merel van Haastert>is not true. No, but the media

600
00:38:16.820 --> 00:38:20.272
<v Joanne Lockwood>feeds us. This stuff right back

601
00:38:20.326 --> 00:38:23.524
<v Joanne Lockwood>from as soon as television was invented, the movies were

602
00:38:23.562 --> 00:38:26.180
<v Joanne Lockwood>invented, the newspapers,

603
00:38:28.360 --> 00:38:31.860
<v Joanne Lockwood>the media have been creating stories that

604
00:38:31.930 --> 00:38:35.704
<v Joanne Lockwood>sell newspapers. They sell films. And the reason they

605
00:38:35.742 --> 00:38:39.256
<v Joanne Lockwood>sell is because they create conflict, they create challenge, they

606
00:38:39.278 --> 00:38:42.810
<v Joanne Lockwood>create some narrative that is different to everyday life.

607
00:38:43.500 --> 00:38:46.270
<v Joanne Lockwood>I was speaking to an editor of a

608
00:38:47.200 --> 00:38:50.952
<v Joanne Lockwood>national Sunday paper in the UK about something recently

609
00:38:51.016 --> 00:38:53.630
<v Joanne Lockwood>and they basically said to me that

610
00:38:54.560 --> 00:38:58.172
<v Joanne Lockwood>the Anti brigade have

611
00:38:58.226 --> 00:39:01.696
<v Joanne Lockwood>something to talk about, whereas the people just getting on with their

612
00:39:01.718 --> 00:39:05.568
<v Joanne Lockwood>lives, it's no. A person gets up in

613
00:39:05.574 --> 00:39:09.404
<v Joanne Lockwood>the morning, smiles, goes to work, comes home, puts

614
00:39:09.452 --> 00:39:13.176
<v Joanne Lockwood>kids to bed, goes to sleep, it's not news. So unless

615
00:39:13.228 --> 00:39:16.964
<v Joanne Lockwood>you're creating news and creating some debate or creating some

616
00:39:17.002 --> 00:39:20.660
<v Joanne Lockwood>challenge, you're not newsworthy. So the media is picking up on

617
00:39:20.810 --> 00:39:24.624
<v Joanne Lockwood>these stories of the Middle East, these stories of China, these stories of Russia,

618
00:39:24.752 --> 00:39:28.280
<v Joanne Lockwood>these stories of people who are different to us and almost

619
00:39:28.350 --> 00:39:31.992
<v Joanne Lockwood>saying we are the default. These people are different and creating story

620
00:39:32.046 --> 00:39:35.240
<v Joanne Lockwood>about it. So no wonder we've been fed

621
00:39:35.600 --> 00:39:39.292
<v Joanne Lockwood>these images of poor people in Africa with

622
00:39:39.346 --> 00:39:43.180
<v Joanne Lockwood>flies and pot bellies and need of our support

623
00:39:43.250 --> 00:39:46.904
<v Joanne Lockwood>for drought and then painting their countries as dictators

624
00:39:47.032 --> 00:39:50.844
<v Joanne Lockwood>and backwards. And we

625
00:39:50.882 --> 00:39:54.672
<v Joanne Lockwood>somehow talk about them being at risk of nuclear weapons. How can we trust

626
00:39:54.726 --> 00:39:58.304
<v Joanne Lockwood>these people with weapons? All we see is them running in the street with

627
00:39:58.342 --> 00:40:00.050
<v Joanne Lockwood>firing rifles in the air.

628
00:40:02.260 --> 00:40:05.988
<v Joanne Lockwood>The media is almost saying, acting like savages, we can't trust these people. So

629
00:40:05.994 --> 00:40:09.076
<v Joanne Lockwood>this is what the media is putting into our living rooms every day. How can

630
00:40:09.098 --> 00:40:12.692
<v Joanne Lockwood>we stop and walk a step back and go, Actually, they're not.

631
00:40:12.826 --> 00:40:16.536
<v Joanne Lockwood>But now we see people from Syria, from other countries, Afghanistan, as

632
00:40:16.558 --> 00:40:20.116
<v Joanne Lockwood>refugees. We see these highly intelligent

633
00:40:20.308 --> 00:40:24.008
<v Joanne Lockwood>business people who are now reduced to carrying all their possessions on their back with

634
00:40:24.014 --> 00:40:27.628
<v Joanne Lockwood>their families and walking for hundreds of miles to try and find a better life.

635
00:40:27.714 --> 00:40:31.544
<v Joanne Lockwood>And we just see them as scrounging

636
00:40:31.592 --> 00:40:35.416
<v Joanne Lockwood>peasants. That's what the media is portraying them. We don't see the lived

637
00:40:35.448 --> 00:40:38.972
<v Joanne Lockwood>experience behind these people, the story of tragedy, about how

638
00:40:39.106 --> 00:40:42.912
<v Joanne Lockwood>these people from fantastic communities have lost everything through war,

639
00:40:42.966 --> 00:40:46.316
<v Joanne Lockwood>through no fault of their own, being displaced. And we're

640
00:40:46.348 --> 00:40:49.856
<v Joanne Lockwood>devaluing them, aren't we? And that's what the media is telling us. It's like an

641
00:40:49.878 --> 00:40:53.556
<v Merel van Haastert>intravenous every day. That's what you

642
00:40:53.578 --> 00:40:56.660
<v Merel van Haastert>call it, right? Like you get this or microaggression

643
00:40:57.160 --> 00:41:00.772
<v Joanne Lockwood>little pin pricks all the time. It drips into

644
00:41:00.826 --> 00:41:04.676
<v Merel van Haastert>us every single day. And that's how we see the world. And

645
00:41:04.778 --> 00:41:08.452
<v Merel van Haastert>that's what creates this fear. That's why white people are so scared

646
00:41:08.516 --> 00:41:12.072
<v Merel van Haastert>right now, because the bad man, the bad

647
00:41:12.126 --> 00:41:14.810
<v Merel van Haastert>people are coming for us and they want our world.

648
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:19.870
<v Merel van Haastert>We've created all this. We've created all this.

649
00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:26.156
<v Merel van Haastert>If you take all their wealth and destroy everything, of

650
00:41:26.178 --> 00:41:29.952
<v Merel van Haastert>course they're going to go like, well, hey, you

651
00:41:30.006 --> 00:41:33.724
<v Merel van Haastert>said this is the first world and all this wealth

652
00:41:33.772 --> 00:41:37.520
<v Merel van Haastert>is here. We're coming and it's not they're gold diggers.

653
00:41:38.420 --> 00:41:42.244
<v Merel van Haastert>These people would love to go home. They really would

654
00:41:42.282 --> 00:41:45.892
<v Merel van Haastert>love to go home, back to their own countries and live

655
00:41:45.946 --> 00:41:49.604
<v Merel van Haastert>there, raise their kids within their

656
00:41:49.642 --> 00:41:53.264
<v Merel van Haastert>families and that stuff. They're not coming for

657
00:41:53.322 --> 00:41:56.500
<v Merel van Haastert>us. There's no storyline

658
00:41:56.580 --> 00:42:00.392
<v Merel van Haastert>there. Like you said, it's created with these

659
00:42:00.446 --> 00:42:04.072
<v Merel van Haastert>images and we bombarded and that we have to save

660
00:42:04.126 --> 00:42:07.740
<v Merel van Haastert>them. That's just this white saviorism. There's a whole

661
00:42:07.810 --> 00:42:11.452
<v Merel van Haastert>structure of beliefs and

662
00:42:11.506 --> 00:42:14.524
<v Merel van Haastert>ideas and feelings and emotions that are

663
00:42:14.642 --> 00:42:18.088
<v Merel van Haastert>constantly being triggered in us. They're

664
00:42:18.184 --> 00:42:22.032
<v Merel van Haastert>tapping into it every single day just to keep

665
00:42:22.086 --> 00:42:25.804
<v Merel van Haastert>this trigger going. It's trauma. It's actually trauma triggering.

666
00:42:25.852 --> 00:42:29.312
<v Merel van Haastert>They're going to keep doing it so that we keep saying, like,

667
00:42:29.366 --> 00:42:32.992
<v Merel van Haastert>no, shut our borders for these refugees. Our country

668
00:42:33.046 --> 00:42:36.404
<v Merel van Haastert>is too full. And I

669
00:42:36.442 --> 00:42:39.552
<v Merel van Haastert>was in the south of France

670
00:42:39.616 --> 00:42:42.710
<v Merel van Haastert>recently, and I was flying over

671
00:42:43.260 --> 00:42:45.690
<v Merel van Haastert>the ocean. There what's called

672
00:42:49.180 --> 00:42:52.170
<v Merel van Haastert>the same ocean that people use channel

673
00:42:53.740 --> 00:42:56.700
<v Merel van Haastert>from Turkey to Greece.

674
00:42:59.200 --> 00:43:02.860
<v Joanne Lockwood>The Adriatic is it? The Adriatic is it? I'm not really sure.

675
00:43:03.010 --> 00:43:06.636
<v Merel van Haastert>But the same ocean. I remember

676
00:43:06.738 --> 00:43:10.524
<v Merel van Haastert>going there as a child thinking, oh, it's this lovely place. And

677
00:43:10.562 --> 00:43:14.024
<v Merel van Haastert>now I'm flying over it and I'm thinking, but we're letting people die

678
00:43:14.072 --> 00:43:17.836
<v Merel van Haastert>there because of our ideas. That's the

679
00:43:17.858 --> 00:43:21.430
<v Merel van Haastert>only reason that is happening. And

680
00:43:22.280 --> 00:43:26.096
<v Merel van Haastert>it's upon us to change our own minds.

681
00:43:26.128 --> 00:43:29.590
<v Merel van Haastert>And we can. We're intelligent human beings. We can.

682
00:43:30.760 --> 00:43:34.504
<v Merel van Haastert>It's very simple to me. If you create one set of rules, you can

683
00:43:34.542 --> 00:43:38.024
<v Merel van Haastert>also create another set of rules. You can just chuck it

684
00:43:38.142 --> 00:43:41.770
<v Merel van Haastert>and just say, okay, let's do it differently. It's possible.

685
00:43:43.580 --> 00:43:46.570
<v Merel van Haastert>The whole COVID thing actually showed us that

686
00:43:47.100 --> 00:43:50.716
<v Merel van Haastert>by one day, all of it was shut down, everything was done. We

687
00:43:50.738 --> 00:43:54.220
<v Merel van Haastert>now have different rules. Okay, fine. Then

688
00:43:54.370 --> 00:43:57.470
<v Merel van Haastert>just say, okay, this is not working for our world.

689
00:43:59.620 --> 00:44:03.296
<v Merel van Haastert>It has nothing to do with money. It has nothing to do with spreading of

690
00:44:03.318 --> 00:44:07.040
<v Merel van Haastert>wealth. That

691
00:44:07.190 --> 00:44:10.130
<v Merel van Haastert>is a thing. It isn't a thing.

692
00:44:10.820 --> 00:44:14.576
<v Merel van Haastert>This whole economy is just in our heads. At least that's

693
00:44:14.608 --> 00:44:17.936
<v Merel van Haastert>what I think. It might be very simple to say it like that, but that's

694
00:44:17.968 --> 00:44:20.070
<v Merel van Haastert>how I view it. It's really simple.

695
00:44:21.640 --> 00:44:25.348
<v Joanne Lockwood>Well, we start off this podcast by calling the

696
00:44:25.354 --> 00:44:29.088
<v Joanne Lockwood>title Antiracism Work is Not Rocket Science. And the more we're talking

697
00:44:29.114 --> 00:44:32.436
<v Joanne Lockwood>about it, it is a bit of rocket science. There's a lot in it, isn't

698
00:44:32.468 --> 00:44:36.216
<v Joanne Lockwood>it, that we need to get our heads around. And it's not something we just

699
00:44:36.238 --> 00:44:39.756
<v Joanne Lockwood>pick off a menu and say, this is how I do it. There's a lot

700
00:44:39.778 --> 00:44:43.516
<v Joanne Lockwood>of unpacking to do. So why is it so hard for white

701
00:44:43.538 --> 00:44:46.750
<v Joanne Lockwood>people to talk about racism? What are the big obstacles that you see?

702
00:44:50.020 --> 00:44:53.648
<v Merel van Haastert>First of all, what you mentioned earlier is that

703
00:44:53.814 --> 00:44:57.488
<v Merel van Haastert>you are in it. You are white. So that

704
00:44:57.574 --> 00:45:00.450
<v Merel van Haastert>makes it difficult to see it.

705
00:45:01.640 --> 00:45:05.184
<v Merel van Haastert>So that's a challenge. It doesn't

706
00:45:05.232 --> 00:45:08.740
<v Merel van Haastert>mean that you can't come to a point where you start

707
00:45:08.810 --> 00:45:12.532
<v Merel van Haastert>thinking differently or did you change your thinking around certain

708
00:45:12.586 --> 00:45:16.312
<v Merel van Haastert>stuff. But we are not used

709
00:45:16.366 --> 00:45:20.090
<v Merel van Haastert>to being viewed as a group,

710
00:45:20.780 --> 00:45:24.184
<v Merel van Haastert>white people as a group, as a culture. That's the first

711
00:45:24.222 --> 00:45:27.596
<v Merel van Haastert>thing. If you would do that, say okay,

712
00:45:27.778 --> 00:45:31.388
<v Merel van Haastert>like we do with other cultures, like with names you mentioned

713
00:45:31.474 --> 00:45:35.052
<v Merel van Haastert>earlier, the labels that we have. If you

714
00:45:35.186 --> 00:45:38.508
<v Merel van Haastert>just say, okay, if I am a group, if I am

715
00:45:38.674 --> 00:45:42.400
<v Merel van Haastert>from white culture, what does that mean for the rest of the world?

716
00:45:42.470 --> 00:45:45.792
<v Merel van Haastert>Then you have an entrance to start

717
00:45:45.846 --> 00:45:49.696
<v Merel van Haastert>unpacking and why it is difficult. There are

718
00:45:49.718 --> 00:45:51.510
<v Merel van Haastert>a couple of things why it's difficult,

719
00:45:53.720 --> 00:45:56.710
<v Merel van Haastert>I have no full extent, but one of the things is

720
00:45:58.440 --> 00:46:02.244
<v Merel van Haastert>people from other cultures say to us like well, you are in the

721
00:46:02.282 --> 00:46:05.930
<v Merel van Haastert>position of power, you can change things. But

722
00:46:07.900 --> 00:46:11.492
<v Merel van Haastert>strangely enough, within white culture this is what I've discovered

723
00:46:11.636 --> 00:46:14.936
<v Merel van Haastert>is we talk of this freedom of

724
00:46:14.958 --> 00:46:18.760
<v Merel van Haastert>speech that we have this ability

725
00:46:18.840 --> 00:46:22.270
<v Merel van Haastert>and freedom to share our thoughts and all this.

726
00:46:24.480 --> 00:46:27.950
<v Merel van Haastert>Yes, there is, you can share it, but actually

727
00:46:28.580 --> 00:46:31.836
<v Merel van Haastert>if you look at it, it's really frowned

728
00:46:31.868 --> 00:46:34.880
<v Merel van Haastert>upon to go against

729
00:46:34.950 --> 00:46:38.640
<v Merel van Haastert>authority within white culture. It is

730
00:46:38.710 --> 00:46:42.288
<v Merel van Haastert>not okay to challenge

731
00:46:42.384 --> 00:46:46.116
<v Merel van Haastert>authority. We say it is and

732
00:46:46.138 --> 00:46:48.870
<v Merel van Haastert>then you get these nice groups that have these

733
00:46:49.560 --> 00:46:53.188
<v Merel van Haastert>they're contained within an ideology or stuff and

734
00:46:53.194 --> 00:46:56.890
<v Merel van Haastert>then we tolerate it but actually go against

735
00:46:57.820 --> 00:47:01.032
<v Merel van Haastert>our leaders. And that starts young,

736
00:47:01.086 --> 00:47:04.856
<v Merel van Haastert>right? That's not just our government,

737
00:47:04.958 --> 00:47:08.108
<v Merel van Haastert>but that starts young within our families, within

738
00:47:08.194 --> 00:47:11.790
<v Merel van Haastert>school, there's authority, always authority and

739
00:47:13.440 --> 00:47:17.116
<v Merel van Haastert>it's not okay to challenge it. So this is what

740
00:47:17.138 --> 00:47:20.864
<v Merel van Haastert>white people feel is when

741
00:47:20.902 --> 00:47:24.672
<v Merel van Haastert>they say like oh, but maybe this point of view is not

742
00:47:24.726 --> 00:47:28.128
<v Merel van Haastert>really what the world is like and

743
00:47:28.214 --> 00:47:31.844
<v Merel van Haastert>I'm starting to question it. You immediately feel

744
00:47:31.962 --> 00:47:35.796
<v Merel van Haastert>this going like okay, if I do that, then I'll be placed outside of the

745
00:47:35.818 --> 00:47:39.590
<v Merel van Haastert>group and we are

746
00:47:40.440 --> 00:47:44.216
<v Merel van Haastert>trained to stay within the herd. That is what

747
00:47:44.238 --> 00:47:48.088
<v Merel van Haastert>we are trained to do. And this means if you

748
00:47:48.094 --> 00:47:51.752
<v Merel van Haastert>do antiracism work or start even thinking about it, like

749
00:47:51.806 --> 00:47:54.760
<v Merel van Haastert>equality or inclusion, then

750
00:47:54.830 --> 00:47:58.444
<v Merel van Haastert>immediately you feel that you are placed outside of this

751
00:47:58.482 --> 00:48:02.184
<v Merel van Haastert>group and you are taught from a very early age that you're

752
00:48:02.232 --> 00:48:04.910
<v Merel van Haastert>nothing without family, you're nothing.

753
00:48:07.280 --> 00:48:10.770
<v Merel van Haastert>I'm sure you can relate to it. I can relate to it

754
00:48:11.300 --> 00:48:14.956
<v Merel van Haastert>in instances in my life that I've placed

755
00:48:14.988 --> 00:48:18.544
<v Merel van Haastert>myself outside of the group. And then you're alone and

756
00:48:18.662 --> 00:48:22.196
<v Merel van Haastert>that is a scary thing for a human being to be

757
00:48:22.218 --> 00:48:26.020
<v Merel van Haastert>alone with this massive force of

758
00:48:26.170 --> 00:48:29.396
<v Merel van Haastert>structure and system that is going against

759
00:48:29.498 --> 00:48:33.120
<v Merel van Haastert>you and being

760
00:48:33.210 --> 00:48:36.648
<v Merel van Haastert>able to step out of it and say okay, but I'm okay

761
00:48:36.734 --> 00:48:40.504
<v Merel van Haastert>here. That is difficult. That is the

762
00:48:40.542 --> 00:48:44.136
<v Merel van Haastert>big challenge. Yeah.

763
00:48:44.238 --> 00:48:47.804
<v Joanne Lockwood>I think what I'm feeling myself is

764
00:48:47.842 --> 00:48:51.420
<v Joanne Lockwood>that whilst I myself

765
00:48:51.570 --> 00:48:55.260
<v Joanne Lockwood>have not directly been racist, directly course

766
00:48:55.330 --> 00:48:58.544
<v Joanne Lockwood>racism, obviously as a white person I benefit from being the

767
00:48:58.582 --> 00:49:01.948
<v Joanne Lockwood>default. But it's extremely

768
00:49:02.044 --> 00:49:05.584
<v Joanne Lockwood>challenging for an individual to

769
00:49:05.622 --> 00:49:09.456
<v Joanne Lockwood>influence the social construct as an individual of racism, the

770
00:49:09.478 --> 00:49:13.136
<v Joanne Lockwood>social construct of society. So it's

771
00:49:13.168 --> 00:49:16.756
<v Joanne Lockwood>not just something we can do within an organisation and within a

772
00:49:16.778 --> 00:49:20.484
<v Joanne Lockwood>business. We ourselves can promote antiracism, we can talk

773
00:49:20.522 --> 00:49:24.120
<v Joanne Lockwood>about how we can do this, but how do

774
00:49:24.270 --> 00:49:27.912
<v Joanne Lockwood>we, as white people who want to do something

775
00:49:27.966 --> 00:49:31.348
<v Joanne Lockwood>about this, change society itself? Because that's

776
00:49:31.364 --> 00:49:35.176
<v Joanne Lockwood>fundamentally what we're talking about here. This is not a tweak. This

777
00:49:35.198 --> 00:49:37.580
<v Joanne Lockwood>is a fundamental realignment.

778
00:49:38.640 --> 00:49:39.390
<v Merel van Haastert>Yeah,

779
00:49:43.520 --> 00:49:47.244
<v Merel van Haastert>it's scary to raise your voice and

780
00:49:47.282 --> 00:49:50.450
<v Merel van Haastert>to say, well, this is not okay. I don't agree with this.

781
00:49:52.500 --> 00:49:55.984
<v Merel van Haastert>And I think that would be in any structure where

782
00:49:56.022 --> 00:49:59.250
<v Merel van Haastert>you challenge authority and power.

783
00:50:01.940 --> 00:50:05.644
<v Merel van Haastert>It's not like that. I have privilege as a white

784
00:50:05.702 --> 00:50:09.316
<v Merel van Haastert>woman, which means I'm on this, you know, I'm the step down from a

785
00:50:09.338 --> 00:50:12.884
<v Merel van Haastert>white man, which means I've got a lot of power in this world. It is

786
00:50:12.922 --> 00:50:16.504
<v Merel van Haastert>not power that I can actually how do you say

787
00:50:16.542 --> 00:50:17.130
<v Merel van Haastert>that?

788
00:50:20.300 --> 00:50:23.640
<v Merel van Haastert>Into something that, okay, now let's change society.

789
00:50:25.260 --> 00:50:28.828
<v Merel van Haastert>But you need community.

790
00:50:28.994 --> 00:50:32.492
<v Merel van Haastert>And I think that is what I'm trying to do

791
00:50:32.546 --> 00:50:36.284
<v Merel van Haastert>too, is speaking up about this so that it

792
00:50:36.322 --> 00:50:40.144
<v Merel van Haastert>resonates with others and others start coming into this community of

793
00:50:40.182 --> 00:50:43.824
<v Merel van Haastert>feeling like, okay, we need some change. But this

794
00:50:43.862 --> 00:50:46.130
<v Merel van Haastert>change won't happen within the system.

795
00:50:47.540 --> 00:50:51.104
<v Merel van Haastert>Of course there needs to be stuff done there. But the

796
00:50:51.142 --> 00:50:54.740
<v Merel van Haastert>change happens when you, as an individual, step outside of this group

797
00:50:54.810 --> 00:50:58.340
<v Merel van Haastert>and say, I want to live in a different

798
00:50:58.410 --> 00:51:00.390
<v Merel van Haastert>world. I want to live in a world

799
00:51:02.120 --> 00:51:05.260
<v Merel van Haastert>where I won't be scared of foreigners,

800
00:51:05.440 --> 00:51:09.272
<v Merel van Haastert>of people coming into my country or taking my

801
00:51:09.326 --> 00:51:13.050
<v Merel van Haastert>jobs, just actually saying, okay, not going to do

802
00:51:15.680 --> 00:51:19.276
<v Merel van Haastert>that. I believe in a kind of

803
00:51:19.298 --> 00:51:22.892
<v Merel van Haastert>tipping point kind of thing. If more people start saying,

804
00:51:22.946 --> 00:51:26.524
<v Merel van Haastert>okay, this is not okay, then the thing will

805
00:51:26.562 --> 00:51:30.268
<v Merel van Haastert>tip. And it's a long process. It's

806
00:51:30.284 --> 00:51:33.824
<v Merel van Haastert>a very long process. And it's very painful because on the one hand, it is

807
00:51:33.862 --> 00:51:37.424
<v Merel van Haastert>individual. You change your individual

808
00:51:37.542 --> 00:51:41.284
<v Merel van Haastert>points of views. That means, like I said, I do energy work

809
00:51:41.322 --> 00:51:44.100
<v Merel van Haastert>and spiritual work. You change your vibration,

810
00:51:45.160 --> 00:51:48.932
<v Merel van Haastert>your being, and that resonates with others. That's how

811
00:51:48.986 --> 00:51:52.710
<v Merel van Haastert>change actually happens. So it's individual work.

812
00:51:53.900 --> 00:51:57.624
<v Merel van Haastert>And then enough people have to get there. Then we

813
00:51:57.662 --> 00:52:01.432
<v Merel van Haastert>can challenge some ideas around

814
00:52:01.486 --> 00:52:04.936
<v Merel van Haastert>it. It's not a linear world thing.

815
00:52:05.118 --> 00:52:08.472
<v Merel van Haastert>In the Western world sorry, in the Western

816
00:52:08.536 --> 00:52:09.150
<v Merel van Haastert>world,

817
00:52:13.600 --> 00:52:16.910
<v Merel van Haastert>sorry. For people thinking, why am I because. My cat is

818
00:52:18.480 --> 00:52:21.632
<v Joanne Lockwood>going another Lockdown special. We've got the cat

819
00:52:21.686 --> 00:52:25.456
<v Joanne Lockwood>visiting. We've had mothers, we've had the Amazon man and now we

820
00:52:25.478 --> 00:52:28.752
<v Joanne Lockwood>have the cat. People can't see this, but you could

821
00:52:28.806 --> 00:52:32.644
<v Merel van Haastert>see in front of my face, okay, I lost my train

822
00:52:32.682 --> 00:52:36.468
<v Merel van Haastert>of thought. Let

823
00:52:36.474 --> 00:52:40.276
<v Joanne Lockwood>me ask you a question. One of the challenges when

824
00:52:40.298 --> 00:52:43.912
<v Joanne Lockwood>we've talked before, one of the challenges we find is that white people feel

825
00:52:43.966 --> 00:52:47.576
<v Joanne Lockwood>shame. They don't know where to start. They're worried about

826
00:52:47.678 --> 00:52:51.032
<v Joanne Lockwood>getting it wrong. They don't understand their

827
00:52:51.086 --> 00:52:54.650
<v Joanne Lockwood>whiteness. And I understand that

828
00:52:55.180 --> 00:52:58.764
<v Joanne Lockwood>you set up a project, project Colour White. Which

829
00:52:58.882 --> 00:53:01.836
<v Joanne Lockwood>do you want to talk to me about? Why you created that and how it

830
00:53:01.858 --> 00:53:05.612
<v Joanne Lockwood>can help white people be antiracist? Yeah,

831
00:53:05.746 --> 00:53:09.152
<v Merel van Haastert>I started that because I indeed wanted

832
00:53:09.206 --> 00:53:12.210
<v Merel van Haastert>to reach out to other people

833
00:53:12.740 --> 00:53:16.352
<v Merel van Haastert>was a personal thing, actually. Like, I felt all these things

834
00:53:16.406 --> 00:53:19.632
<v Merel van Haastert>that were wrong and I had no

835
00:53:19.686 --> 00:53:23.268
<v Merel van Haastert>idea how change

836
00:53:23.354 --> 00:53:27.044
<v Merel van Haastert>was going to come about. And I thought, Well,

837
00:53:27.162 --> 00:53:30.884
<v Merel van Haastert>I want to talk to white people. How do they feel? Do they

838
00:53:30.922 --> 00:53:34.756
<v Merel van Haastert>feel this? It's very uncomfortable. It's

839
00:53:34.788 --> 00:53:38.552
<v Merel van Haastert>really uncomfortable being challenged on your beliefs around the world

840
00:53:38.606 --> 00:53:42.116
<v Merel van Haastert>because it feels like candy is being taken away from you. That's

841
00:53:42.148 --> 00:53:44.440
<v Merel van Haastert>actually really how it feels.

842
00:53:46.080 --> 00:53:47.790
<v Merel van Haastert>I couldn't talk to

843
00:53:49.920 --> 00:53:53.516
<v Merel van Haastert>the women because I mostly work with women of colour. I

844
00:53:53.538 --> 00:53:57.356
<v Merel van Haastert>couldn't talk to them about this because they, of course, have an

845
00:53:57.378 --> 00:54:01.212
<v Merel van Haastert>idea about it, but they're not white. They don't

846
00:54:01.276 --> 00:54:03.570
<v Merel van Haastert>feel the way I feel.

847
00:54:06.180 --> 00:54:09.936
<v Merel van Haastert>Waking up in this system where you are part of

848
00:54:09.958 --> 00:54:13.380
<v Merel van Haastert>this oppression is something else than waking up

849
00:54:13.530 --> 00:54:17.284
<v Merel van Haastert>on the outside of it and

850
00:54:17.482 --> 00:54:20.070
<v Merel van Haastert>seeing this system work against you.

851
00:54:21.000 --> 00:54:24.068
<v Merel van Haastert>Waking up with this privilege and you're going like, oh,

852
00:54:24.154 --> 00:54:27.864
<v Merel van Haastert>jeez, I've got this. Privilege is hard. It's really

853
00:54:27.902 --> 00:54:31.720
<v Merel van Haastert>hard. And I wanted to talk to others.

854
00:54:31.870 --> 00:54:33.690
<v Merel van Haastert>That's actually how I

855
00:54:36.400 --> 00:54:39.816
<v Merel van Haastert>created this project. I wasn't

856
00:54:40.008 --> 00:54:42.830
<v Merel van Haastert>thinking about creating a project, it just happened.

857
00:54:44.640 --> 00:54:48.344
<v Merel van Haastert>I wanted to have some white women come together because

858
00:54:48.482 --> 00:54:52.176
<v Merel van Haastert>we already said it's white men. That's on top of

859
00:54:52.198 --> 00:54:55.952
<v Merel van Haastert>it. I still am very weary about talking to white

860
00:54:56.006 --> 00:54:59.744
<v Merel van Haastert>men about antiracism, because I immediately get

861
00:54:59.782 --> 00:55:03.484
<v Merel van Haastert>into this patriarchy thing where I'm not taking so seriously

862
00:55:03.532 --> 00:55:07.044
<v Merel van Haastert>and that kind of thing I'm wary of that starting to get

863
00:55:07.082 --> 00:55:10.630
<v Merel van Haastert>better. But I wanted to talk to white women

864
00:55:11.160 --> 00:55:14.650
<v Merel van Haastert>and it turned out that is not that easy.

865
00:55:17.340 --> 00:55:21.048
<v Merel van Haastert>So then I thought, well, I'll make it a project and

866
00:55:21.214 --> 00:55:24.904
<v Merel van Haastert>I'll throw it out into the world, like what my

867
00:55:24.942 --> 00:55:28.492
<v Merel van Haastert>views are and how I think that we can change

868
00:55:28.546 --> 00:55:32.252
<v Merel van Haastert>this so that we can start having a

869
00:55:32.306 --> 00:55:35.804
<v Merel van Haastert>real constructive conversation about

870
00:55:35.922 --> 00:55:39.436
<v Merel van Haastert>what this actually means to dismantle anti

871
00:55:39.468 --> 00:55:42.930
<v Merel van Haastert>blackness in yourself and what you come up against

872
00:55:43.700 --> 00:55:47.420
<v Merel van Haastert>so that you won't feel so alone. And in the meantime,

873
00:55:47.500 --> 00:55:51.240
<v Merel van Haastert>try to come up with some ideas

874
00:55:51.340 --> 00:55:54.390
<v Merel van Haastert>about the world that you actually want.

875
00:55:54.920 --> 00:55:58.644
<v Merel van Haastert>Because I don't want this world. I never wanted this world to be

876
00:55:58.682 --> 00:56:02.212
<v Merel van Haastert>this way. This is not something that I

877
00:56:02.266 --> 00:56:04.710
<v Merel van Haastert>consciously chose. So

878
00:56:05.820 --> 00:56:09.192
<v Merel van Haastert>this is why I started this project colour White. And it's still very

879
00:56:09.246 --> 00:56:13.096
<v Merel van Haastert>difficult to get white people to talk about it. It

880
00:56:13.118 --> 00:56:16.956
<v Merel van Haastert>is shame in there. We think that we have to

881
00:56:16.978 --> 00:56:20.280
<v Merel van Haastert>take on this guilt

882
00:56:20.360 --> 00:56:24.072
<v Merel van Haastert>thing of our ancestors and it's

883
00:56:24.136 --> 00:56:26.990
<v Merel van Haastert>never been about that. It's not what people want.

884
00:56:30.100 --> 00:56:33.904
<v Merel van Haastert>You can't change the past. Really can't. I have

885
00:56:33.942 --> 00:56:35.410
<v Merel van Haastert>ancestors who

886
00:56:38.020 --> 00:56:40.880
<v Merel van Haastert>had sugar plantations in Indonesia

887
00:56:41.540 --> 00:56:45.152
<v Merel van Haastert>and I can't feel guilty about it, but that doesn't change

888
00:56:45.206 --> 00:56:48.836
<v Merel van Haastert>anything anyway. It's what happen. You just have to be

889
00:56:48.858 --> 00:56:52.224
<v Merel van Haastert>honest about it, that this is a part of it and that's

890
00:56:52.272 --> 00:56:56.090
<v Merel van Haastert>how you need to talk. And this is something that we,

891
00:56:56.940 --> 00:57:00.010
<v Merel van Haastert>as Western culture, we still don't do so well.

892
00:57:05.680 --> 00:57:07.820
<v Joanne Lockwood>I'm nervous about having a conversation

893
00:57:09.920 --> 00:57:13.516
<v Joanne Lockwood>about antiracism. I'm not an expert. Where do I

894
00:57:13.538 --> 00:57:17.132
<v Joanne Lockwood>start? What if I say something? So I think

895
00:57:17.186 --> 00:57:20.690
<v Joanne Lockwood>many white people are uncomfortable having this conversation because

896
00:57:21.940 --> 00:57:25.664
<v Joanne Lockwood>they've got no anchor of their

897
00:57:25.702 --> 00:57:29.312
<v Joanne Lockwood>perspective. I think when we were talking about

898
00:57:29.446 --> 00:57:33.030
<v Joanne Lockwood>your project, Colour White, it was trying to create a safe space

899
00:57:33.640 --> 00:57:37.284
<v Joanne Lockwood>for white people to not know white people, to not be

900
00:57:37.322 --> 00:57:40.948
<v Joanne Lockwood>sure about how to have conversations without

901
00:57:41.034 --> 00:57:44.744
<v Joanne Lockwood>the fear of upsetting somebody else who

902
00:57:44.782 --> 00:57:48.136
<v Joanne Lockwood>maybe is part of that conversation. So it's almost like a safe space to

903
00:57:48.158 --> 00:57:50.200
<v Joanne Lockwood>explore whiteness

904
00:57:51.980 --> 00:57:55.784
<v Joanne Lockwood>because we have many communities where people who are not

905
00:57:55.822 --> 00:57:59.592
<v Joanne Lockwood>white, black people, brown people, they come together

906
00:57:59.646 --> 00:58:03.336
<v Joanne Lockwood>and they have a passion to change the world, whereas white people effectively

907
00:58:03.368 --> 00:58:07.036
<v Joanne Lockwood>are trying to change themselves, which is a lot harder sometimes than trying

908
00:58:07.058 --> 00:58:10.844
<v Joanne Lockwood>to change the world. The enemy is ourselves, effectively. And that's

909
00:58:10.972 --> 00:58:14.624
<v Joanne Lockwood>what you're doing, is you're almost battling your own

910
00:58:14.662 --> 00:58:18.384
<v Joanne Lockwood>infrastructure, your own family, your own friends. And people

911
00:58:18.422 --> 00:58:22.004
<v Joanne Lockwood>don't always have the tools because as humans we like to agree with each other,

912
00:58:22.042 --> 00:58:25.876
<v Joanne Lockwood>we like to have easy conversations, we want to be superficial, but to

913
00:58:25.898 --> 00:58:29.684
<v Joanne Lockwood>actually start almost being paternal, maternal or

914
00:58:29.722 --> 00:58:33.468
<v Joanne Lockwood>even patronising or patronising

915
00:58:33.504 --> 00:58:36.836
<v Joanne Lockwood>somebody by talking to them in a way about racism

916
00:58:37.028 --> 00:58:40.650
<v Joanne Lockwood>is not comfortable in our nature, is it? No.

917
00:58:41.740 --> 00:58:45.560
<v Merel van Haastert>And you don't like to admit that you're fearful.

918
00:58:47.840 --> 00:58:49.550
<v Merel van Haastert>Currently I do these

919
00:58:51.920 --> 00:58:55.468
<v Merel van Haastert>I call it let's sit and talk. I go out

920
00:58:55.554 --> 00:58:58.816
<v Merel van Haastert>into a public space outside.

921
00:58:58.918 --> 00:59:02.160
<v Merel van Haastert>Usually I see down two stools

922
00:59:02.820 --> 00:59:06.476
<v Merel van Haastert>with the COVID metre and one and a half metres apart

923
00:59:06.588 --> 00:59:10.336
<v Merel van Haastert>and I invite people to come and sit down

924
00:59:10.358 --> 00:59:13.728
<v Merel van Haastert>and talk to me about it. That's

925
00:59:13.824 --> 00:59:17.364
<v Merel van Haastert>again, creating a safe space. And there was this

926
00:59:17.402 --> 00:59:20.596
<v Merel van Haastert>conversation recently I had with a white man

927
00:59:20.778 --> 00:59:24.336
<v Merel van Haastert>and he said, but I am afraid of

928
00:59:24.378 --> 00:59:27.944
<v Merel van Haastert>losing what I have because I'm actually comfortable with what I have.

929
00:59:28.062 --> 00:59:31.672
<v Merel van Haastert>I said, yeah, that's okay. To feel and to

930
00:59:31.726 --> 00:59:35.492
<v Merel van Haastert>have this kind of conversation in a mixed group is

931
00:59:35.566 --> 00:59:38.972
<v Merel van Haastert>difficult because you

932
00:59:39.026 --> 00:59:42.684
<v Merel van Haastert>admit to

933
00:59:42.722 --> 00:59:46.510
<v Merel van Haastert>this fear that keeps other people outside

934
00:59:47.200 --> 00:59:50.770
<v Merel van Haastert>of your network or stuff,

935
00:59:51.300 --> 00:59:54.784
<v Merel van Haastert>so they get triggered on a different level. Well, you need

936
00:59:54.822 --> 00:59:58.192
<v Merel van Haastert>to own this feeling of

937
00:59:58.246 --> 01:00:02.052
<v Merel van Haastert>fear, these emotions that you have around

938
01:00:02.106 --> 01:00:05.270
<v Merel van Haastert>it. There are a lot of emotions you're going to have.

939
01:00:06.360 --> 01:00:09.700
<v Merel van Haastert>I remember going through different

940
01:00:09.770 --> 01:00:13.464
<v Merel van Haastert>steps of what white fragility means, what white tears means,

941
01:00:13.502 --> 01:00:17.304
<v Merel van Haastert>and how that comes up in me. And I remember

942
01:00:17.422 --> 01:00:20.170
<v Merel van Haastert>sitting there for, I think, a week it was,

943
01:00:21.660 --> 01:00:25.400
<v Merel van Haastert>of feeling no ground beneath me anymore. Like everything

944
01:00:25.470 --> 01:00:29.164
<v Merel van Haastert>I believed in had gone and I didn't know what this

945
01:00:29.202 --> 01:00:32.796
<v Merel van Haastert>new thing was going to look like. I still don't know. So

946
01:00:32.898 --> 01:00:35.980
<v Merel van Haastert>yeah, also in me there's still some fear

947
01:00:36.720 --> 01:00:40.320
<v Merel van Haastert>because I was cheering about

948
01:00:40.390 --> 01:00:43.648
<v Merel van Haastert>being 51. It also means that I've for

949
01:00:43.734 --> 01:00:47.536
<v Merel van Haastert>51 years been living in a certain way and I

950
01:00:47.558 --> 01:00:50.812
<v Merel van Haastert>need to give it up. And that's not

951
01:00:50.886 --> 01:00:54.336
<v Merel van Haastert>fun. Like you said, we're

952
01:00:54.368 --> 01:00:57.824
<v Merel van Haastert>not changing the rest of the world, we're changing ourselves,

953
01:00:57.952 --> 01:01:01.796
<v Merel van Haastert>which is, yeah, that is the fear. So you

954
01:01:01.818 --> 01:01:05.316
<v Merel van Haastert>need the safe spaces. We need lots more safe

955
01:01:05.348 --> 01:01:08.984
<v Merel van Haastert>spaces and we need to figure out how,

956
01:01:09.102 --> 01:01:12.872
<v Merel van Haastert>for white people, there is an urgency to this. Why

957
01:01:12.926 --> 01:01:16.712
<v Merel van Haastert>to do this, why do we need to change? Because, yeah,

958
01:01:16.846 --> 01:01:20.668
<v Merel van Haastert>you and me, we can withdraw ourselves and say, okay, we don't want

959
01:01:20.674 --> 01:01:24.396
<v Merel van Haastert>to do this fight, we don't want to talk about inclusion. We

960
01:01:24.418 --> 01:01:27.710
<v Merel van Haastert>can withdraw in our lives, we can live happily ever after.

961
01:01:29.200 --> 01:01:32.450
<v Merel van Haastert>In Dutch, we say NA unstasunsflute, which means

962
01:01:32.900 --> 01:01:35.330
<v Merel van Haastert>after us, whatever.

963
01:01:36.660 --> 01:01:40.508
<v Merel van Haastert>I'll just live my life and I can do that. I don't

964
01:01:40.524 --> 01:01:44.084
<v Merel van Haastert>have to do this, I don't have to change the world because

965
01:01:44.122 --> 01:01:47.940
<v Merel van Haastert>it's working for me in a certain way and actually

966
01:01:48.010 --> 01:01:51.728
<v Merel van Haastert>having to realise that this discrimination,

967
01:01:51.824 --> 01:01:55.560
<v Merel van Haastert>this thing that we have learned to do, is

968
01:01:55.630 --> 01:01:59.450
<v Merel van Haastert>actually causing us all these problems that are in this world.

969
01:01:59.820 --> 01:02:02.890
<v Merel van Haastert>So there is an urgency for us to do it.

970
01:02:04.140 --> 01:02:07.644
<v Merel van Haastert>I will say it dramatically. It's our souls that are at

971
01:02:07.682 --> 01:02:11.276
<v Joanne Lockwood>risk here, for sure.

972
01:02:11.458 --> 01:02:14.716
<v Joanne Lockwood>One phrase I use myself is holistic, active and

973
01:02:14.738 --> 01:02:18.508
<v Joanne Lockwood>deliberate. That's about inclusion. We have to

974
01:02:18.514 --> 01:02:22.336
<v Joanne Lockwood>be deliberate about it and active. And what you're saying is, if we

975
01:02:22.358 --> 01:02:26.064
<v Joanne Lockwood>walk on by, if we let it pass, we turn

976
01:02:26.102 --> 01:02:29.808
<v Joanne Lockwood>the other cheek, we turn a blind eye, whatever expression you want to use,

977
01:02:29.974 --> 01:02:33.652
<v Joanne Lockwood>we're not being deliberate and active. What we're doing there is we're letting something

978
01:02:33.706 --> 01:02:37.012
<v Joanne Lockwood>become more normal by the only

979
01:02:37.066 --> 01:02:40.852
<v Joanne Lockwood>reaction can and should be to say no, to stand

980
01:02:40.906 --> 01:02:44.660
<v Joanne Lockwood>up and be actively and deliberately antiracist,

981
01:02:44.740 --> 01:02:48.584
<v Joanne Lockwood>antisexist, anti, whatever. Because the moment we let

982
01:02:48.622 --> 01:02:52.232
<v Joanne Lockwood>it pass, we give permission for it to happen

983
01:02:52.286 --> 01:02:56.076
<v Joanne Lockwood>again. And at some point it escalates. So I think

984
01:02:56.098 --> 01:02:59.468
<v Joanne Lockwood>you're right, it's incumbent on each of us to

985
01:02:59.634 --> 01:03:01.500
<v Joanne Lockwood>take an anti stance

986
01:03:03.440 --> 01:03:05.950
<v Joanne Lockwood>and the oxymoron, or

987
01:03:09.220 --> 01:03:11.760
<v Joanne Lockwood>be intolerant of intolerance,

988
01:03:12.980 --> 01:03:16.720
<v Joanne Lockwood>which is a paradox in itself, but where

989
01:03:16.790 --> 01:03:19.804
<v Joanne Lockwood>intolerance lays, we can't be tolerant of anyone's

990
01:03:19.852 --> 01:03:23.332
<v Joanne Lockwood>intolerance. And antiracism is just

991
01:03:23.466 --> 01:03:27.252
<v Joanne Lockwood>a good example where we need to be intolerant of any racism and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>actively and deliberately so. That's fantastic. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I'd love to find out more about your project. Colour white. I mean, we've talked

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<v Joanne Lockwood>extensively. If anyone's listening to this,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>how can people get in touch with you to find out more about your projects?

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<v Merel van Haastert>Project Colour White is on Facebook and Instagram,

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<v Merel van Haastert>so you can type in Project Colour White.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Is that the American spelling and colour color? Or is it the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>C-O-L-O-R? So the American spelling and colour.

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<v Merel van Haastert>Okay, sorry. Yeah, we like to put you

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<v Joanne Lockwood>in our colour. We extra U in our colour.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So project colour white, spelt the white. Yeah, yeah. So you can find

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<v Merel van Haastert>it on Facebook and on Instagram and that gives you the

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<v Merel van Haastert>access to the project and my contact.

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<v Merel van Haastert>And on the Facebook there's a big note,

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<v Merel van Haastert>which I call the ground of Project Colour White, which

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<v Merel van Haastert>tells you about how I create a safe space for white

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<v Merel van Haastert>people to talk about these very difficult things.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Excellent. Well, we're going to carry on talking about

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<v Joanne Lockwood>this and we're going to keep in touch. And I'm definitely

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<v Joanne Lockwood>being active and deliberate about my antiracism,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and I'd welcome anyone who's listening to get in touch with yourself

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and myself. Maybe you'd like to come and talk about what work you're doing in

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<v Joanne Lockwood>antiracism, maybe from a white perspective on this

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<v Joanne Lockwood>podcast. Come and have a chat. So, a huge thank you

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<v Joanne Lockwood>to Mural. Thank you for joining us today. Thank you for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the listeners for tuning in and sticking with it.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Please do subscribe to keep updated on the future episodes of the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Inclusion Bites podcast. That's bites. Please tell your

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<v Joanne Lockwood>friends if you have some, and your colleagues if you happen to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>have some colleagues as well. I have a number of exciting guests lined

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<v Joanne Lockwood>up that I'm sure you'd be even more inspired by, if that's possible

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<v Joanne Lockwood>over the next few weeks and months. And remember, if you'd like to be a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>guest on the show, please let me know. And as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>long as you're talking about something around inclusion, making the world a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>better place for everyone to thrive, then no topic is off

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<v Joanne Lockwood>limits. So I'd welcome your comments, your feedback and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>suggestions to Joe Lockwood at ctnchapan co

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<v Joanne Lockwood>UK. Tell me how we can improve future shows. Tell me what

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<v Joanne Lockwood>topics you'd like to hear. So, finally, my name is Joanne

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Lockwood, and it has been an absolute pleasure to host this podcast for you today.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Catch you next.