01:38 Balancing personal and professional identities for success. 06:17 Mum got sick, I took bigger journey. 09:48 Exhaustion and fear from constant decision-making. 15:28 Discovering true self breaks societal expectations, privileges. 17:53 Gender roles are complex, transitioning involves unlearning. Playing the social gender game can be mind-bogglingly tough but validating when respected. 24:40 Rules not real; follow your own joy. 26:22 Discovering happiness, validation through correct pronouns. 32:10 Trans person's doctor-prescribed wrong dose of testosterone. Angry but grateful for privilege. 35:10 Living out loud is paying it forward. 37:50 My work educates, supports, and saves lives. 42:43 Telling the truth creates better outcomes globally. 45:45 Psychological tactics hinder diversity in hiring process. 52:06 Aeroplanes, male-dominated environments, change, filling gaps. 54:57 Katrina Kibben teaches writing better job ads. 56:17 Fascinating van life journey, thanks for listening!