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<v Joanne Lockwood>Welcome to Inclusion Bites, your sanctuary

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<v Joanne Lockwood>for bold conversations that spark change. I'm Joanne Lockwood,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>your guide on this journey of exploration into the heart of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>inclusion, belonging and societal transformation.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Ever wondered what it truly takes to create a world? Remember, everyone

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So adjust your earbuds and settle in. It's time to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>ignite the spark of inclusion with Inclusion Bites.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And today is episode 190 with the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>title Leadership, Learning and Belonging. And I

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<v Joanne Lockwood>have the absolute honour and Privilege to welcome Dr. Cedric Howard.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Cedric is a higher educational thought leader and financial

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<v Joanne Lockwood>empowerment advocate who is dedicated to breaking cycles of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>poverty through inclusive leadership and real world impact.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And when I asked Cedric to describe his superpower, he said that it

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<v Joanne Lockwood>is translating complex policy into everyday storeys

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that inspire actionable change. Hello, Cedric. Welcome to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the show. Thank you. I'm honoured to be here. Looking

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>forward to the conversation. Absolute pleasure. So

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<v Joanne Lockwood>we were chatting in the green room just before we went live and I think

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you said you were in North America at some place.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Yes, you talk about sleepless in Seattle. I'm in the wonderful

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>city of Seattle. Seattle. And I

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<v Joanne Lockwood>guessed this correctly, so this is not cheating. I guessed it was in Washington state

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and I just. Yes, we're

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>nested between California, Oregon and British

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Columbia, Canada. So I get. I've been to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>New York a few times, I've been to Miami a few times, I've been to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>San Diego, San Francisco and L.A.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>What's the Seattle culture like as a state? Or do you have an identity?

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Yes, we have what is called

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Seattle. Nice. It is the place everyone

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>likes to come to when they enjoy

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>moderate weather because it's pretty much between 40 and 70 year

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>round. A hot day for us is like

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>72. Not a lot of snow, especially

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>on the i5 corridor door. But it's the place you come when you want

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to just relax, chill, get you a cup of. Of coffee. Of course,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you know we're known for being the home for a famous coffee place

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that shall remain nameless. Yes, of course, but.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Of course, but no, it is a place that I have Grown

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to love, in part because it is a place where your

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>identity and who you are as a person is accepted. And our neighbourhood. I grew

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>up in the southern part of the United States where race was an issue,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>either things were black or white, and where you went, you knew

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>based upon your ethnic makeup here, whether.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Whether you are straight, gay, black, white, however you

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>decide to identify is well embraced and welcome, in part because

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the Pacific Northwest community is one that looks at

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>inclusion as an asset

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and we embrace it. If you were to go into my neighbourhood, or you were

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to go into my place of business, where my office is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>located, I mean, sometimes people refer to it

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>as United nations because you may hear two or three different

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>languages just as you're entering the door or you're playing outside with the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>kids. Pacific Northwest, I've heard that term. I never really associated that with a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>geographical language location. But, yeah, obvious, isn't it? You're on the Pacific

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and you're in the Northwest. So, yeah, you mentioned the i5. I didn't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>realise it went all that way up. It goes all the way from basically

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Mexico all the way through, up to Washington State then, does it?

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>That is certainly the case. Certainly the case. Unfortunately. You know, one of the,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I would say the liabilities of being in the Pacific Northwest is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>because it's so green, we have a lot of allergies that are blooming during

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>this time of season. So we have to adjust and adapt from that perspective. Other

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>than that, that's the worst we have to deal with here.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So you're on the i5 all the way at the top, aren't you? So I,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I, I bumped into the i5 in San Diego, in LA

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<v Joanne Lockwood>when I was there. And my claim

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Exit and then next sign is welcome to Mexico. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it was a, a bit of a, kind of like, oh, that was a mistake.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>It was an aha moment. Yeah. So if you would continue north, you would take

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the eye up through Oregon and into

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Washington and you will eventually end at the Canadian

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>border. So it literally goes from Canada to Mexico along

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that coast? Yeah. Yes, yes. Literally, it is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the gateway between three different countries.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Wow. Yeah. When I was in, I worked in LA for a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>while and we did spend a bit of time cruising up and down

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the pch. Yes. Yeah. Pacific.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. So you go there, all the RVs on the side of the road, parking

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<v Joanne Lockwood>over the, looking over the Pacific, and you just go on and on and on.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>There's back to back RVs for 20, 30, half

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<v Joanne Lockwood>an hour as you're driving them. Yeah, well, see, you know, the uniqueness of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>being in some place like the Pacific Northwest is in part because

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>all of the Californians, actually many

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of them have residents here in Washington state,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in part because of our tax system. You know, California

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is a high tax state. In Washington State we

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you can, as we say, you make your money in California,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>but you have your permanent residence and address here in Washington

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>state so that you don't have to necessarily pay the taxes or as many taxes

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>on your income. And that's kind of what we, what we're known for.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>What I oftentimes say about being in Pacific Northwest,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>it is the utopian community that you didn't

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>know existed. And I have to say that very

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>respectfully, in part because when people come here

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and they're walking around and they're trying to, you know, enjoy the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sights, whether it is a space Needle or they're going to,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you know, see some of, you know, because, you know, literally in, in

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Seattle you could be fishing in the Pacific Ocean

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and then literally an hour from, from, from there you could be

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>skiing all in the same morning or same afternoon

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>because we go from actually sea level

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And so it is a diverse community that people, you know, fall

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in love with. But when you come here, the thing that most people are surprised

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is just how genuinely kind people are.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And three out of the top 10 zip codes, United States

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for its diversity is here in metropolitan Seattle area.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I giggled because I said, wait till you see the insurance

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>commercials. And so there's insurance commercials

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>where people are literally at four way stops and they say, you go. No,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you go. No, you go, you go. And no one can decide who

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to go because people are just so kind and so nice,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>suspect something's wrong. And I think it's just a community environment

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that have really been cultivated here in the Seattle area.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>again. I may venture that way. You never know. That is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>certainly the case. I mean, we have a much larger issue

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>around travel and Visa and other things that we're dealing with here in the United

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>States that I think is something that is a bit of an

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to travel and how we deal with things. So. Well said. Yeah,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>see what happens. Anyway, so

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you're an educational thought leader. What does that mean?

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<v Joanne Lockwood>How did that come about? So it was actually a mistake,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to be quite honest and frank. I got into higher education

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>literally. You know, people say, never waste a good crisis.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And my actually introduction to higher education was

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a crisis. And I had used it to maximise the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>opportunity and really cultivate and create and curate

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a career that has led to me being considered a thought leader here in the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>United states. So in 1993,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>it was the first recorded case of police

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>officers actually, you know, abusing

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a person. And that person's name was Rodney King.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I happened to be working at a university as a student

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and that day my campus was

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in the state of Georgia. And actually the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>campus, very proud of being a graduate of that institution, was

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the very first capital of Georgia. It actually sits geographically in the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>centre of the state and the governor's mansion is on campus. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>so a couple blocks from there is the residence hall, very large Residence

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>hall, about 800 students that resided there. And that day

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>we had just literally finished playing

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>intramural basketball and everyone was having fun.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And when the verdict happened on the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the Pacific coast in California, three hours later, those same people were

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>actually physically attacking each other because of the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>verdict. And of course, like I said, everything in the south, especially back then, was

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>black and white. So you had friends that were getting along now, attacking each other

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>based upon their colour. And I'm a relatively big

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>guy, you know, six, four. And so I did something

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that I thought I would regret, but actually

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>became the springboard for my career. I ran into the resident

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>assistant's office and got duck taped and I went and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>grabbed people because they respected me. At that point in time, I was student body

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>vice president and had just been named Hong Kong King for the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>campus. And I began to duct take people to telegram polls

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to. If you stay still long enough,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I would duct tape you to someone else just so you can fight each other.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Well, the next day I got called to the president's office and the vice president

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>was there and the chief of police was there and I knew that I was

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>getting, you know, suspended and expelled from school. And they literally

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>said to me, hey, Cedric, when we begin this and your

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>name came up, we were shocked because we was like, Cedric was involved.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I can't believe he was, you know, involved in this particular situation in a negative

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>way and realised, no, you were actually the saving grace. And so, no, you're not

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>getting kicked out of school. What we would like to offer you is an opportunity

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to consider higher education as a profession. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I said, as a profession? They said, yes, we go to school to become

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>college administrators. I said, I've never heard of that before. They said,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>well, when you graduate next year, we would like to recommend you to a couple

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of schools. Which they did. And I was accepted. And ultimately that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>became the springboard and trajectory of a career that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>has spanned more than 30 years. And so that has evolved into

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>me really curating my career to say as a first

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>generation college student, which I am, how do I create an

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>environment where people that are similar to me, people that are coming from disadvantaged

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>backgrounds, people that are students that are coming from less than

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>desired socioeconomic classes into the. Give them a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>gateway into the academy. And so that's how I have created my

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>career. And because of that, when there's a thought that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>this last week I've been interviewed by Forbes and, and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Yahoo Finance. And just think over my career, I've been interviewed

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for north of 150 publications.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>When there's a question that is been

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>batted back and forth around, you know, how does this affect the student experience

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and affect students. Usually I'm getting a call in order to

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>provide some narrative. But it all began a chance situation,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you know, in April of 1993 because of the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Rodney King situation. And some action I

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>writing chapters and books for the profession.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And now I'm considered to be a thought leader and as the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>young people say, an OG and a higher education og kind of the old

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>as I actually am. As you talk about. I've got loads of questions in my

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<v Joanne Lockwood>head that I just want to, I really want to dive in there. Please go

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>ahead. For those listening, who is

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Rodney King? I've heard the name as being outside of the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>U.S. i don't know the storey. And it was what, 22 years ago?

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<v Joanne Lockwood>23 years ago. What's the quick storey about who Rodney

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<v Joanne Lockwood>King was? Yes, so Rodney King actually

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>was, believe it or not, was 32 years ago. It was in 1993,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>California. We talk about the PCH. Rodney King

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>was the first actual recorded police beating of a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>citizen. And it was on. It was a situation in California where he

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>was a driver that was pulled over and you know, dozens of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>police Officers responded and he was. There was a recording

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of four police officers beating him hundreds of times.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And it was the. You know, for me, it became the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that video went viral before we knew the term viral across

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the world. And then ultimately there was a case of those

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>four police officers with the video and they were acquitted

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and said that their actions were just. And that ignited. It

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sparked a lot of racial tension and frustration

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>within the United States. So that's kind of the premise of, you

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>know, some people have heard of George Floyd, but this was the original case

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>before George Floyd happened. Rodney King was the very

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>first recorded police case of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>brutality here in the United States. As a black man

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<v Joanne Lockwood>yourself, a part of the community, you must have been outraged as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>well, just from a racial community point of view. But

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<v Joanne Lockwood>how were you feeling at the time? Well, I didn't know how

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to feel at the time. You know, at this time, you know, I'm not even,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you know, I'm not even. I think I was like 19 or 20

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and, you know, and I'm a college student. And I realised that in our

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>campus, I mean, we're only 5% of the student population.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And here I am as a student body officer

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and, you know, recognised by our community. For me,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I was raised in an environment and just knowing my

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>storey, I was raised, you know, one of. One of my things

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I've done for its financial literacy and that part, and I'm kind of circle back

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>around is I go into communities, I tell the storey of how I went from

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>welfare to wealth and generational wealth. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>part of it was that I was raised in a community that took care of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>each other, where, you know, your neighbour's needs were your needs.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And so I took that same thought into the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>academy, into the university. And so as a resident

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>assistant living in our residence hall, I went into a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>community saying, okay, why are we fighting each other for no reason? I mean, we're

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>friends. And so I just went into action the same way I would

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>have been in the inner city had I been at home. If something's happened, you

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>just jump into action. And so I didn't see myself as

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a large black man now after the fact I did. But during

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the situation, I saw myself as a student body officer. I saw myself as an

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>agent of the institution. I saw myself as interacting with friends

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that had a relationship. So this wasn't transactional, this relational.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And I think that allowed me to take off

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the blinders that would have blinded me Had I thought about,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I'm a large black man about to go and grab someone who's not black,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>because that would have, you know, fear would have forced me, you know, to

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>forfeit ultimately what became my promise. And I'm very

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>fortunate that it did. It. It takes a. Well, with hindsight, it must have taken

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a really. It's been ingrained in your psyche and personality that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you were looking for resolution and to pull

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<v Joanne Lockwood>together rather than get angry and push apart. That must take a real kind

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of core value of yours that you've brought through. Well, one of my core

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>values as a person and as an educator is the greatest

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>struggle you have to overcome is the one within yourself. If you can't win the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>battle of your own thoughts and the self talk and rewire your

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>mind to think positive and seek positivity,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>then you're already defeated. And so I live

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>my lifelong perspective that a crisis

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>or a threat is nothing more than opportunity. No simply means

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>another option. And so I have to look at my life from that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>perspective, not from a deficit mindset. And I oftentimes say that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>if we begin with that, then you and I have

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>never met each other, but there's a kinship that we can

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>engage in a conversation with honesty and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in a authentic manner that I think is beneficial

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for others that review this particular conversation. Now, if we begin

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>from that perspective, we've already won. We've already set

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>an environment, an ecosystem that we can learn from each other. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I think that is critical in any conversation and debate to give

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that person the agency to be who they are

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and to respect who they are. And so that's the way I approach

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>life. That's who I am as a professional, who I am in, you know, in

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>higher education. Because almost every higher

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>education institution is nothing more than a reflection of the community that it

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>resides within. That is all that it is.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>It is simply a smaller, miniature version of, of what is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>happening with the factors and the influences that are

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>affecting it. And so we, you know,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>discuss things in the same way. The difference is that we

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>create an environment that says it is okay to have debate, it

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is okay to be frustrated, it is okay to, to engage

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in conversation, but you must do so up

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>under the umbrella or the premise of that you respect

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the person that you're engaging in debate with. That

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is something that I think we can. Can mirror in society. And I think that's

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>what has come for me. And that's why that being a person from a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>disadvantaged background, I had all the things that was against me. You Know,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I was the first in my family to go to college. Well, statistics

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>say I shouldn't make it. Definitely

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>was not. Only 4% of African Americans in

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the United States and only 2% of African Americans

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>across the world have terminal degrees, you know,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for a doctorate, you know. And so for me, it was creating an

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>environment to say, because I've come from those places, why should

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I fear, you know, the situations I'm dealing with? Because

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>we should create an environment where people feel valued, seen, and most

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>importantly, validated. That's how we should lead as

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>individuals and citizens. I completely agree with you. I think I would also describe

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<v Joanne Lockwood>myself as an educator rather than an activist. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>as you're talking now, I'm thinking, I've almost in my own mind thinking.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>When activist talks without listening, an educator's first, first

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<v Joanne Lockwood>tool is listening before talking. And it's trying to understand where

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<v Joanne Lockwood>people are and meet them where they are first, rather than telling everybody

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<v Joanne Lockwood>where you are. It's a slightly different approach. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I think I use the word thought leader in your

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<v Joanne Lockwood>introduction. And that's part of that. It's leading thought, isn't it? It's

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<v Joanne Lockwood>bringing people around the table to have these conversations and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>disarming people and saying, hang on a minute, we're not going to solve anything by

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<v Joanne Lockwood>being at polar opposites here. Yeah. And I think an important part

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of being. What I have learned about the convenience of leaders

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is that you may have content, but it's

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>also important to have context. Because when you have

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>content with context, you have clarity.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And what I have decided to do, especially in my

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sphere of influence working with higher education deans, vice

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>presidents and presidents, is say, have we thought about the context

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>by which we're going to present this content? And that's

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>where we've been able to leverage games and really

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>come off from the perspective of everything that we feel

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>may not be felt or seen by those that are

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>making decisions. Almost every incident,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>every public institution in the United States reports up,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>ultimately, through a community or state board, a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>politician. And so not to acknowledge that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>public's desire has some influence on that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>politician, which has influence on your funding, is a fallacy.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>It's a flawed thought. And so we got to begin with that first. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>so leveraging the thoughts is saying, timeout. What is important

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to you as a politician? What is important to you as a power broker? What

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is important to you as a part of the citizens and the community

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that you serve? That's where we should begin, because we should be

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the community's college or the Community's university and not

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>organisation or a structure onto ourselves. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that's where I have learned being, you know, considered a thought leader is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>because I have said my primary customer in higher

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>education are students. And what I do is create an

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>environment where access and success becomes the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>guiding principles for leading decisions

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that ultimately serve our primary customer, which are students. And when

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>we get that as the focal point, then we can

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>make more, we can make much more meaningful,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>direct and intentional decisions that support the students that we

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>ultimately serve. How do you make sure that you're humanising the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>individual? Because sometimes when you're making decisions at a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>politician level, at a campus level, whatever it may be, it's too easy to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And how do you bring out the human into your model?

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Well, I think the most important thing is to make sure that at every

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>stage of the decision making process you're involving students

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to bring that voice. Because as a senior level

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>administrator or as you know, when I'm being interviewed, I'm thinking

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in the macro because I'm trying to get a point across to the, to the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>masses. But storytelling is extremely important. That's why,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you know, from every phase of development and every

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>point of discussion actually have a student that is part of that process. Oftentimes

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I have a couple students because they have different storeys to tell and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>they have different experiences. So making sure that we involve

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>students, one of the things that I have learned, and this

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is important lesson I think is critical for the, for, for your

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>listeners and a part of our conversation. Too often

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>those that are in power are making decisions based upon

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>who is funding or who is giving input into

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>their decision making process and they're not involved in the people that are being

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>affected. And so for me, I began

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>just the opposite to say, okay, let me truly understand what is the problem.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So I go to the people that are affected first, understand the problem

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and then I develop a solution based upon the programme,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the policy and or procedure that actually

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>addresses the problem. And I think that's how you

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>resolve the issue of the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>voices of the individuals that are being affected. Start with them

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>first. Don't create an issue or problem based upon the funding

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>source and or the political influence that may

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>craft a statement for you because their interests have already

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>been met. Go to the people that are going to be affected and start there

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>first, because now you can craft something that is actually meaningful and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>intentional and actually get to address what the issues actually

406
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>are. Yeah, no, I see that. And you're right. Sometimes you got to ask, ask

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the money what their motivation is. Yes, yes. And often just to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>make more money. You gotta understand the person's why, because that's what

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>drives them. And, you know, you gotta also

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>understand the process. The process determine the product that you produce. And

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>so in my process or processes that I lead, I make sure I have all

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>effective parties at the table so that they can engage in

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>conversation and inform decisions as we're moving forward. You

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<v Joanne Lockwood>mentioned earlier that you're a first generation college graduate.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Yes. That implies to me that you're not the last. See,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you're now the beginning of your new family tree. Yes.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So very briefly. So go back to the storey of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>undergraduate career. So a year Later, June of 94,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I graduated and I happened to be the first in my family to ultimately

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>graduate. So my, my, my grandmother came and I've kind of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>told this storey because it became the genesis of the new iteration of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>our family. My grandmother came and my grandmother's 5:1,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and she said, you know, can I have your gown? And I said, no, the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>gown belongs to me. And she says, you know, in this, you know,

425
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>very direct Southern grandmother voice,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>baby, if you want to see tomorrow, you will give your nana the gown.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I said, yes, ma'. Am. So I took the gown off and I gave it

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to her. At that point in time, it was myself and 11 cousins. I'm the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>only child. My father was the only child. So on that side, I was only

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>child. On my other side of my mother's side, my maternal side, I'm the oldest

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of the grandkids. And so my

432
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>grandmother asked for my cousins to get into this gown. And she says, from

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>this standpoint, each of you owe me a

434
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>college graduation gown. That is my expectation for you. I don't want any

435
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>money. I want college graduation gowns. That day

436
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>set the trajectory of my entire family. We're very

437
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>fortunate. There's 18 of us now. All 18 have

438
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>college degrees. My mother, who was

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a young mother who gave birth to me out of

440
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>wedlock and eventually we were born into,

441
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>at that point in time, what was welfare, went back to college

442
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and went to college when she was in her late fourth 40s.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And then 14 years later, 14 years later,

444
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>she's the second doctor my firstborn happens to

445
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>be. We consider her to be the real doctor because she actually has a medical

446
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>degree. She graduated college with her first degree at 16,

447
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>medical school to 21, and now at 26, she's a

448
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>practising neurologist. And then we, my son, we refer to him

449
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>as the slacker, in part because he's the naval officer

450
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and actually serves in our US Navy. He only has one degree,

451
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>so he just graduated a year ago. So we told him he need to step

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>up his game a bit. But I say all that to say, not that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>anything was special about our family other than there was an

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>inflection point. It was an inflection point where my grandmother said, enough

455
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is enough, you know, I'm tired of us having this cycle

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of poverty. And here's now the new expectation.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And so, you know, the youngest, when he just graduated about a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>week or so ago, he's taking his gown and actually in a couple of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>days we're going to have a ceremony because his 18th gown that we'll put

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>actually, my grandmother's no longer with us and so we'll put it actually on the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>chest on her grave. And that will bring that

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>version of her vision to fruition. But it has set a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>trajectory for a new version of her, who we are. And I would say for

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>generations to come, we would tell the storey of my grandmother in part because

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that day it changed the trajectory of our family.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>That's really powerful. It's so powerful. I didn't get a degree,

467
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I didn't go to any university, I joined the Royal Air Force, so I joined

468
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<v Joanne Lockwood>the. I had a military career when I left school and my

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<v Joanne Lockwood>father didn't have a degree either and my mother didn't have a degree. When I

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<v Joanne Lockwood>was growing up, she went back to become a teacher and she got a degree.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I was already an adult, so I can't really claim that she was a previous

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<v Joanne Lockwood>generation degree holder. She went back afterwards. But our two

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<v Joanne Lockwood>children, our daughter and our son, both had degrees when I grew up.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>It was never an expectation, that part of the education, it was. I was

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<v Joanne Lockwood>brought up in a trade apprenticeship rather than the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>professional side, so my destination was electronics and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>engineering, but I didn't need a degree for that. So, yeah, I mean, all of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the fact that you started this tradition within your own family and created this

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<v Joanne Lockwood>because it's a belief system. If my parents said to me,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the expectation in our family is for you to get a degree, my life would

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<v Joanne Lockwood>have gone that direction. But they didn't. Which. It's not good or bad.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>It is, but, yeah, I think fair onto your

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<v Joanne Lockwood>nana. Yeah. And I think, you know,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for many, when they actually, you know, when I, when I do keynotes and I

485
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>do speaking engagements, people actually shock so you promote people to

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>go to college and get a degree. No, I promote you to get an education.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And for some people your education is to go to trade school

488
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>or your, your education is to learn how to do the business that you're

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>seeking. For me and my path is

490
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I need to get a college degree but for others

491
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>it may be that you are going to become an electrician or

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you're going to get a trade. I promote that there should be some post

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>secondary education that prepares you to have

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a job or trade that provides

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>support for you and resources for you to live. That is what I

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>promote as an educator because college and the academy, college of the university

497
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is not for everyone. And I say that, you know, if you have a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>tree and you're skilled with your hands, go for it.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>My son knew that he wanted to go into the military

500
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and so the compromise was that hey, you

501
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>can do this, here's a programme for you to go through. If you're going to

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>do it, consider being an officer. Well, he was very fortunate in order, in order

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for that to occur. But he got his degree and,

504
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and, and, and, and he got his degree in naval

505
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>science because that's what he knew he wanted to do. He didn't get it in

506
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>another discipline. He knew he wanted to go into Navy, he knew he wanted to

507
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>be a lifer, that's what he wanted to do. The

508
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>compromise was to get a degree. But if he were to say to me, I

509
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>want to go directly in and he was passionate. We've been like son, we're supporting

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you, we support you just longest, you're going to have training and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you're going to have a skill set and a trade to live off of.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>That is the most important thing from our perspective. When you talk there about the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>educational side and the financial independence, it reminds me of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the tsunami that was in the 2004

515
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Sri Lanka and India and around that area. And I was involved

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<v Joanne Lockwood>helping people post that tsunami funds,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>whatever. And I also got involved with a programme that they used to have in

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<v Joanne Lockwood>India called Freedom through Education. And I didn't understand

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<v Joanne Lockwood>what it was until it was explained to me that freedom education was allowing

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the Indian population to break free of colonialism. So that was

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the freedom from colonialism through education. But you

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<v Joanne Lockwood>can apply that metaphor, you generate life choices and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>freedom by being educated, by being marketable, by having

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<v Joanne Lockwood>skills, by having a value in society. So what you're doing there is

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you're giving people a worth, aren't you? Through education? Yeah, and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>essence real important. So I give I'm going to give you a fact that

527
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that's going to probably shock you because it shocks many. Now I've been in higher

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>education, like I said now for 31 years. I'm also an entrepreneur.

529
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So I have a consultant firm that works with leaders and

530
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I have a couple other companies that fall up under my larger

531
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>umbrella. I have made more money from being an

532
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>entrepreneur than I have from being an educator. So my

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>entrepreneurial aspects and spirit actually funds for me

534
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>being a college administrator. And so

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that's why I say I can't frown upon someone who has

536
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a spirit to learn and they may not want to go

537
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sit in a classroom for four or five, six years, but they can go

538
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>through an eight week programme, become an entrepreneur and be a successful

539
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>business person, they can run a successful trades

540
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>operation. Why would I promote that? Why wouldn't I support that? You

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>know, when I look at my cousin's action number four, because my grandmother referred

542
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to us, not by name, she referred to us when she was alive by numbers.

543
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So she called you by your numbers. I don't think she ever knew all of

544
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>our names, she just called, you know, she always got the number right. But

545
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>number four actually went into the Navy first and

546
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>then got out of the Navy after 20 years. And that's when she went

547
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to college, became a paralegal and now she's an attorney. Now imagine if

548
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>we would have said, no, you got to go to school first. She would have

549
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>been like, no, that would just not. Would not have been her.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So give people the agency to go down the path

551
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that is most suitable for their desires and who they are as individuals.

552
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Ultimately the life satisfaction and happiness is a lot

553
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>more, is a lot more rewarding from that perspective other than forcing people

554
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to do things because, you know, that's the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>fad of the day. That is, you know, the issue du jour

556
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and it is the, you know, the, for lack of better. It's a

557
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sexy thing. No, I want it to be sound, not

558
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sexy. I want to make sure that it is going to be sustainable.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And you know, that's where I say that's real talk. That's the educator in

560
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>me that says, yes, you could do it, but how you do it may

561
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>be very different than how others do it. Yeah,

562
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I think it's also important for young people to appreciate. You don't have to get

563
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<v Joanne Lockwood>it right first time when you're 16, 17, 18, 19,

564
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<v Joanne Lockwood>20, that age. We often end up making these decisions in our

565
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<v Joanne Lockwood>life that we get to our late 20s and go

566
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<v Joanne Lockwood>actually, I'm on the wrong bus. I should be over somewhere doing something else. And

567
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I think we too often expect our younger people to

568
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<v Joanne Lockwood>have a destination before they're ready to find one because. We have these

569
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>fallacies and scripts. And I said there's four things we have to address

570
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in any situation to change your trajectory. For one,

571
00:37:09.880 --> 00:37:13.480
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>we have to address, I call them the hates. You have to address the habits,

572
00:37:13.480 --> 00:37:17.320
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you have to address the attitudes, you have to address the beliefs, and you also

573
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>have to address the expectations. That event that occurred for me when I

574
00:37:21.000 --> 00:37:24.840
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>graduated changed a habit in our family. It

575
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>also changed our attitudes about what we can accomplish.

576
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Then we change our belief system to say, no,

577
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>this is attainable. And now we have established a set of

578
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>expectations that has allowed us to put systems

579
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that are in place. And so, you know, for us and our family,

580
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>because it is a belief system, we have structures

581
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in place to ensure that you're going to get the degree that

582
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you seek. So, you know, you don't have to worry about the funding because we

583
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>have a family nonprofit that is set up and trust set up to pay

584
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>for those things. The more successful we become as a family, the more

585
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>resources that are available for the next generation. And so by

586
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>addressing your age, your habits, your attitudes, your

587
00:38:11.900 --> 00:38:15.380
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>beliefs and your expectations, you can rewrite the mental

588
00:38:15.380 --> 00:38:19.300
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>models and you can rewrite the self talk and a set of

589
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>systems or that are either supporting you and, or

590
00:38:23.120 --> 00:38:27.000
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>holding you back to make sure that they're aligned appropriately to

591
00:38:27.000 --> 00:38:30.840
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>get you to where you need to be. Most successful people have

592
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>failed oftentimes many more times than they

593
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>have succeeded, but they've learned how to deal with that failure. And that is how,

594
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you know, you understand that successful people become successful because they

595
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>properly learn how to process failures. So, so they

596
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>don't, so they don't continue to go down those same

597
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>path. I oftentimes prefer it's the R and D method for individuals.

598
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I saw a study, I can't remember where I saw it, but it's around

599
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<v Joanne Lockwood>A grade. Students are less likely to be entrepreneurs because they've

600
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<v Joanne Lockwood>never experienced failure in the same way that a D grade student or an E

601
00:39:08.360 --> 00:39:12.160
<v Joanne Lockwood>grade student has always had to live with that failing and

602
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<v Joanne Lockwood>retrying mentality and, and they learn how to be more resilient.

603
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Yeah, I wrote an article, I don't know, probably 15 years

604
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>ago that many universities was kicking out

605
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>after the first year, more 4.0 high school students than they were

606
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the 2.5 high school students because the fools had gotten to college.

607
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And they had to learn the survival skills, the grit and resiliency in order

608
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to be able to be successful. They were used to a routine not

609
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>figuring things out versus at 2.5, it had some adversity. And

610
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>they've learned to figure things out in a way that was productive and

611
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>sustainable within a college environment. Don't learn to walk without falling

612
00:39:51.030 --> 00:39:54.990
<v Joanne Lockwood>over. You have to bump your head, graze your knee. First time you ride a

613
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<v Joanne Lockwood>motorbike, you're hanging on, you know you've got it, you got to get it wrong

614
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<v Joanne Lockwood>to get it right. Imagine your kids and my kids,

615
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>every time they fell, we ran over to, to pick them up. They would

616
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>never learn how to walk. And so we have to allow them

617
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to scrape some things, some, you know, you know, first in order for them to

618
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>develop the chops, in order to accomplish the things they need to accomplish.

619
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Is that one of the challenges we face in today's society where

620
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<v Joanne Lockwood>we've tried to minimise failure, we've tried, everyone's a winner,

621
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<v Joanne Lockwood>everyone's an ad. Everyone has come first. We don't, we don't pick out the

622
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<v Joanne Lockwood>winners and losers anymore because you don't want to make the losers feel bad.

623
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Everyone gets a trophy, everyone gets a participation trophy

624
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>versus everyone should have gotten the experience for

625
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>participating. And the reward was that you got the

626
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>experience. And so I think what we have

627
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>done is said we want to make sure that everyone is going to be

628
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>valued and seen. I'm not saying disrespect. What I'm saying is that

629
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>there's lessons to be learned from the challenges and

630
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>there's lessons from, learn from the experiences, trial and error.

631
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So that when you're not there as a parent, when you're not there as a

632
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>support structure, they're able to survive.

633
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I quite happily admit I've spent a lot of my life making

634
00:41:16.230 --> 00:41:20.030
<v Joanne Lockwood>mistakes and I'm better for it. It's only when you

635
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<v Joanne Lockwood>make the same mistake repeatedly that you're not learning if you are. Every new

636
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<v Joanne Lockwood>experience and throughout my 20s, teens,

637
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<v Joanne Lockwood>20s, 30s, I've made some huge mistakes in my life.

638
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Some of them, I look back and go, oh, blimey, I was lucky to get

639
00:41:34.730 --> 00:41:38.570
<v Joanne Lockwood>away with that, or I didn't get away with it and I deserved not to

640
00:41:38.570 --> 00:41:42.570
<v Joanne Lockwood>sort of thing. And yeah, you mess up. But now I'm 60 and

641
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I look back and think I've got all those big value pillars in

642
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<v Joanne Lockwood>my life that I can look back on and go, actually, I've got core value

643
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<v Joanne Lockwood>as a result of that. And I'VE got another core value to honesty. Integrity

644
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<v Joanne Lockwood>came out of being in situations where I was wanting

645
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<v Joanne Lockwood>for those things and I was coming short and they made

646
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<v Joanne Lockwood>me realise that actually I don't want to have no integrity and I don't want

647
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<v Joanne Lockwood>to have no honesty. Those are now my. A bit like

648
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<v Joanne Lockwood>that film is inside out where you make the core memories drop them down the

649
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<v Joanne Lockwood>chute. I think these core memories develop myself

650
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<v Joanne Lockwood>and I know who I am now based on those significant

651
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<v Joanne Lockwood>self critical moments. Yeah, yeah, that is critical. You

652
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>know, I tell you a storey.

653
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>One of the physicians asked my daughter said so you know,

654
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you're so much younger than us. I have kids older than you, you know,

655
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>how, how do you stand up to us? How do you, you

656
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>know, because when we're in a situation you are

657
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>commanding the room and you're so young. And she says

658
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>my daddy put me in situations where he knew I was going to fail

659
00:42:53.060 --> 00:42:57.060
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and he never rescued me. So when I'm in this environment and we're in

660
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the middle of a crisis, I have learned the skills. That

661
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is not about the characteristics that I asude

662
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>as or you see as a person. It's the characteristics that I'm bringing

663
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to the situation are to resolve it. So I don't see you

664
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>as an elder, I don't see you as. I see you as another medical

665
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>provider and we're equals. Can we address the issue

666
00:43:20.300 --> 00:43:24.260
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of our patients? Because she understands the lessons

667
00:43:24.260 --> 00:43:28.140
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that I've taught about serving students and they should be the core

668
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of what you do. Her patients are her students

669
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and that's the environment that she's in. I put in some in a situation where

670
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I knew that she was going to fail. You know, she was

671
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>11 or 12 and I put her in basketball. She doesn't have an

672
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>athletic bone in her body. I knew she was going

673
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to fail but she learned, she didn't give up.

674
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>She ultimately, you know, got better at it

675
00:43:55.470 --> 00:43:57.550
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and better at it and before

676
00:43:59.470 --> 00:44:02.990
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>four or five years later, I mean she was one of the top basketball players

677
00:44:03.230 --> 00:44:07.030
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in our state and you know,

678
00:44:07.030 --> 00:44:10.670
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and ultimately played basketball in college. But she tells the storey

679
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>of my dad put me in an environment and I

680
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>kick and I claw and I was like I hate

681
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you. And I later realised that was the best thing ever happened to me. Same

682
00:44:22.030 --> 00:44:25.270
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>as my son, I put him in wrestling because I knew he was not a

683
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>good wrestler and he struggled but

684
00:44:29.230 --> 00:44:32.870
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>now he's learned how to struggle. And so sometimes as

685
00:44:32.870 --> 00:44:36.440
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>parents, sometimes as more

686
00:44:36.440 --> 00:44:39.960
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>experienced citizens, we got to put the younger generations,

687
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the younger generation in situations where

688
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>they can learn and grow, be there in case they really fall.

689
00:44:48.360 --> 00:44:51.959
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>But don't pick them up every time they struggle because they're learning

690
00:44:52.360 --> 00:44:56.280
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>skills, grit, resilience, that'll be much

691
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>more conducive for them as adults than had we not put them in

692
00:45:00.760 --> 00:45:04.600
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>environments that we got put in, put into you. Because you know, oftentimes

693
00:45:04.600 --> 00:45:08.440
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>our generation just go out and play, just come back, you know, at a certain

694
00:45:08.440 --> 00:45:12.440
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>time, figure it out, figure out a game to play, you know, figure this

695
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>situation out. It is those problem solving skills that I

696
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>think are critically important as a part of the situation. And that's what I also

697
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>bring with me into higher education. This is not a complex situation.

698
00:45:23.960 --> 00:45:27.560
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>It is a relatively simple situation.

699
00:45:28.090 --> 00:45:32.090
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>There's personalities involved that make it complex. So let's remove the

700
00:45:32.090 --> 00:45:36.010
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>personality and let's actually address what is the core issue. Because

701
00:45:36.010 --> 00:45:40.010
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>if we address the core issue, the symptom goes away. And

702
00:45:40.010 --> 00:45:43.890
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>so when there's complex situation, let's take a step back.

703
00:45:43.890 --> 00:45:47.610
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I use a five step process I refer to as the nerdy way.

704
00:45:48.010 --> 00:45:51.930
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>It's something that I publish in one of my books. And nerdy stands for

705
00:45:52.810 --> 00:45:56.230
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the N is actually an acronym for knowledge, education,

706
00:45:57.190 --> 00:46:00.870
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>research, discovery for you. So you look at your knowledge

707
00:46:00.870 --> 00:46:03.550
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>base, you look at what you do and you, what you know and what you

708
00:46:03.550 --> 00:46:07.270
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>don't know, then you educate yourself. That's the key.

709
00:46:07.750 --> 00:46:11.710
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>What, what, where things, what should things be? What are all the information I

710
00:46:11.710 --> 00:46:15.550
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>need in order to make a decision? The research is actually the

711
00:46:15.550 --> 00:46:18.870
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>active learning piece where I'm actually learning how to

712
00:46:19.030 --> 00:46:22.820
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>apply skill set. And then you discover a new you

713
00:46:22.820 --> 00:46:26.660
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and that new you is what you implement moving forward. That's how I address

714
00:46:26.740 --> 00:46:30.540
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>complex situation. Tell me what I know. That's my current

715
00:46:30.540 --> 00:46:34.540
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>knowledge. I educate myself, which is the process. The research is actually

716
00:46:34.540 --> 00:46:38.540
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the application of what I'm doing. Because you're testing things, you're

717
00:46:38.540 --> 00:46:42.180
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>experimenting and then I come out a better person. That's the

718
00:46:42.260 --> 00:46:45.300
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>discovery for you. And that is

719
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>a bit of a method that I've used to deal with almost every complex

720
00:46:49.740 --> 00:46:53.630
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>situation. And to this day is always bode well in order

721
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to take a complex situation, simplify and make a lot

722
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>easier for people to consume.

723
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<v Joanne Lockwood>That's a great model and I think that holds you

724
00:47:07.630 --> 00:47:10.950
<v Joanne Lockwood>in good stead as you get older and older because it also helps you delegate

725
00:47:10.950 --> 00:47:13.910
<v Joanne Lockwood>as well. I think you don't have to do everything yourself. What you're doing there

726
00:47:13.910 --> 00:47:17.260
<v Joanne Lockwood>is you're coordinating the resources that you need

727
00:47:17.740 --> 00:47:21.660
<v Joanne Lockwood>to succeed in whatever you're Doing as an entrepreneur, as an

728
00:47:21.660 --> 00:47:25.660
<v Joanne Lockwood>employee, wherever you are in that. And by using that model, what you're doing is

729
00:47:25.900 --> 00:47:29.700
<v Joanne Lockwood>you're mapping out what you need to succeed next. Because

730
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>remember, oftentimes when you're dealing with issues, you don't have to be the content

731
00:47:33.180 --> 00:47:36.900
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>expert. You just have to have that connection and serve as a

732
00:47:36.900 --> 00:47:40.860
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>connector through the connective tissue with the content expert in order

733
00:47:40.860 --> 00:47:44.800
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>to resolve the situation and or issue. It's

734
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<v Joanne Lockwood>like being an astronaut. You need telemetry, you need data, you

735
00:47:48.800 --> 00:47:52.560
<v Joanne Lockwood>need trajectory, you need to know conditions, you need to go, okay, now I can

736
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<v Joanne Lockwood>plot my course, and then how am I going to get home again? So you've

737
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<v Joanne Lockwood>got all those parameters in there to make the best decisions is what you're looking

738
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<v Joanne Lockwood>for, isn't it? Absolutely. But also as an astronaut, that

739
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is central command and the control unit's job to figure all that stuff out.

740
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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Your job is to serve as the pilot of the craft, as you use another

741
00:48:10.820 --> 00:48:14.820
<v Dr. Cedric Howard>example, trusting your team. Yeah, you're the jockey. You

742
00:48:14.820 --> 00:48:17.980
<v Joanne Lockwood>just got to push the button at the right time or hang on in there

743
00:48:18.060 --> 00:48:22.060
<v Joanne Lockwood>when it gets. Yes, yes. You know,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>I've learned because I spent some time in England

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>in 2009 and 10, I was actually working to assist Parliament as

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>they re look at the academy structure, very similar to the US system.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And one thing I learned is your version of football,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>what we call soccer, that it is truly

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>not just a sport, it's a lifestyle. And that the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>communities and city, cities by which these clubs are in

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>really galvanise around the particular club.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And then of course, there's when to go to elevation and those type of things.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>So it reminds us kind of of the situation. The clubs

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>need the communities that they reside in. The communities

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>need the clubs because the soccer

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>teams become an economic driver for those particular communities

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>and a sense of pride. And so you need each other to support each

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>other in order for all parts and partners to be successful.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. And the team brings the community together. You've got something to get

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<v Joanne Lockwood>behind. The wins, the losses, the hope, the dreams, the,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the celebrations. And that shared lived experience all comes from that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>sporting occasion, doesn't it? I think you have it in the US as well. We

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<v Joanne Lockwood>have the basketball, you have the ice hockey, you have the college football, the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>varsities, you have the same things, don't you, in your own way.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Yeah, but our version of it is NFL football, professional football, it's kind of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>similar. It's just, you know, the tackle football is what everybody kind of

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>galvanise around and drive communities to support each

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>other. You're either a football,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>American football fan or a hockey fan or a basketball. You

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<v Joanne Lockwood>tend to polarise again around your sport tribe, don't you?

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>That is certainly the case. The most divided time

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>at any time is the moment that your team is playing.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>That is the most divided time in any community and or organisation,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>because you're always supporting your team. Yeah. And as you're

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<v Joanne Lockwood>probably aware, in the uk, we've got a lot of clubs, big

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<v Joanne Lockwood>clubs in. So Manchester's got two big clubs, Liverpool's

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<v Joanne Lockwood>got two big clubs, London's got half a dozen big clubs.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And where I live, Portsmouth, we've got a rival club just down the road called

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Southampton. So we've always been this. The red team and the blue team and other

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<v Joanne Lockwood>cities you get the red team and the blue team. It really plays into that,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that sort of tribalism and partisanship. It's for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the good. But sometimes it does spill over into excess passion sometimes, doesn't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it? Yeah, sometimes when we allow the liquid

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>courage libation to get involved, the

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>interventions kind of go away and we kind of get a little bit

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>more animated than we should. Here's a metaphor.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>That's where we need to duct tape our people to a lamppost, isn't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it? Well said, my friend. Well said. I still think

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that's insightful that you found the duct tape and you had the foresight to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>think this is the way of de escalating. Great insight. Yeah, well,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>kind of the metaphor in my life is duct tape has held so many things

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>together in my life, especially as a youth. I knew that it was going to

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>hold whatever it was stuck to. And so it was kind of my

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>genesis in higher education. And it's kind of what I've used to hold things together

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>throughout life. It reminds me of the storey, your

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<v Joanne Lockwood>particular one, as you were. As you were telling your duck tape storey at the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>beginning, it reminded me of a situation I was in probably 20 years ago.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I was in his club and a friend of mine

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<v Joanne Lockwood>decided that he was too lazy to go to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the restroom to use the toilet. He decided he wanted to nip out the fire

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<v Joanne Lockwood>exit and just do his business just outside, because it was a lot easier.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And of course, he set the alarm off on the fire exit. He came back

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<v Joanne Lockwood>in and then security surrounded him. So there's probably about five

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<v Joanne Lockwood>or six big, big security guards. Six, four, six, five. And

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it was kind of middling and they just surrounded him. And I looked at

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<v Joanne Lockwood>this and thought, it's like a bear pit, you know, he was like being baited

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<v Joanne Lockwood>by these people. He was a bit drunk. He'd lost his rational mind.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And I could just see this going really badly wrong. They wanted to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>arrest him, throw him out, kick him. I don't know. This was going

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<v Joanne Lockwood>really bad. For some reason I had the foresight to just walk

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<v Joanne Lockwood>into the middle of the circle and put my arms around him and give him

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the biggest hug and he's going to get off me. I said, I'm not

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<v Joanne Lockwood>letting you go. If I let you go, this is going to end

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<v Joanne Lockwood>badly. You must now listen to me. Shut up and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>just be compliant. Listen to my voice. Listen to my voice. And he

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<v Joanne Lockwood>calmed down. I said to everybody, I've got him, I've got him, it's okay,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I'll walk him out. And they went, okay, and we over to diffuse and walk

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it out. And that was my duct tape moment. It just takes that, that, that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>calmness to just take the heat out of that situation. Doesn't.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Takes someone to diffuse the situation, but you don't know it. In a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>moment, it becomes somewhat instinctive. You just knew

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that you needed to do something. And in reflection,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>post mortem is when you look at and say, I don't know if I should

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>have done that, but it resolved the issue.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Well, I think we all need to have a group of friends with a safe

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<v Joanne Lockwood>word. So that when things are, when you are not thinking through

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<v Joanne Lockwood>your rational brain, your amygdala kicked in, not your prefrontal cortex,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you're really into that adrenaline mode. Someone just needs to come up with that word.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And you go, ah, that's my de. Escalation word. Okay.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Like picking a cat up by the back of the neck. It goes all floppy.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, it just, we just need that, that something to just trigger your front brain

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<v Joanne Lockwood>going, I get it now I'm being an ass. I need to stop. Yeah,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>absolutely. Especially in this era of cameras and

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>social media because it lives forever. You much

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>rather take a, have a moment to pause and for someone to say, hey, I'm

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>gonna, I'm, I'm, I'm going to intervene. You could be upset with me for

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>the moment, but this moment won't live forever because when it

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>escalates, you know, and gets out of head, it's going to be a lot worse

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>when you see it and you're going to say, you should have stopped me. Yeah.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And usually, well, I couldn't stop you. That's what I mean. We just need

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that, need that magic click, don't you? To go, ah, okay,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I get it now and you say duct tape them to the lamppost or give

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<v Joanne Lockwood>them a massive hug, something like that, just to snap them out. Isn't that what

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>friends are for? That's exactly what friends are for. Yeah. You need them in a

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>time of concern and crisis. That's a true friend

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>that can intervene in that point in time when things are, you know,

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>going well, you know, friends are there, but you don't really

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>need them. You need them in a time of crisis and concern. You need people

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>who are going to intervene on you in your stead. I think that's. That's

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>critically important for life and that's a life lesson we can all take

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>from, you know, with us, from this particular conversation.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, no, that's. That's a. That's an excellent takeaway for me. Is

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<v Joanne Lockwood>duct taping your friend to a lamppost just to save him. Yes. I like it,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I like it, I like it. Yeah. Don't recommend it as a. As I

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<v Joanne Lockwood>carrying the duct tape every time, but at least the metaphor is real. Yeah, I

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<v Joanne Lockwood>love it. Yeah. Cedric, it's been absolutely fascinating.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>We can rabbit on for. For hours. I know. Tell me how people get

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<v Joanne Lockwood>ahold of you. So simple way to follow me is

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>on social media and. Or my website. So social media

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>is always Cedric B Howard, C E, D R I C B Howard.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>And my website is cedricbhoward.com and so

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>you can always follow me on all the major social media

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>platforms and on my website. Excellent. Well, we're connected on LinkedIn,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>so when this episode goes out, I'll make sure your LinkedIn's tagged

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and it'll go out on Instagram as well. And all your social links will be

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<v Joanne Lockwood>in the show notes below. So, yeah, absolutely fantastic. So, Cedric,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>thank you so much for your time. It's been amazing having a chat.

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<v Dr. Cedric Howard>Thank you, my friend. As we bring this

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<v Joanne Lockwood>conversation to a close, I want to express my deepest

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<v Joanne Lockwood>gratitude to you, our listener, for lending your ear

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