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<v Joanne Lockwood>Welcome to Inclusion Bites, your sanctuary for bold

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<v Joanne Lockwood>conversations that spark change. I'm Joanne Lockwood, your guide on this journey

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<v Joanne Lockwood>of exploration into the heart of inclusion, belonging and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>societal transformation. Ever wondered what it truly takes to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>create a world? Remember, everyone not only belongs, but

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<v Joanne Lockwood>thrives. You're not alone. Join me as we uncover the unseen,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>challenge the status quo and share stories that resonate deep

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<v Joanne Lockwood>in. It's time to ignite the spark of inclusion with Inclusion

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Bites. And today

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<v Joanne Lockwood>is episode 219 with the title Scaling With

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Clarity. And I have the absolute honour and privilege to welcome

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Amanda Rosazza. Amanda is a business strategist, leadership

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<v Joanne Lockwood>advisor who helps founders build scalable, structured, human centred companies where clarity,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>culture and sustainable growth go hand in

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<v Joanne Lockwood>hand. When I asked Amanda to describe her superpower, she said that it

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<v Joanne Lockwood>is combining strategic thinking with creative innovation to help leaders build smarter

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<v Joanne Lockwood>systems, grow stronger cultures and businesses that grow without burning

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<v Joanne Lockwood>people out. Hello, Amanda, welcome to the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>show.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Really excited to be here, Joanne, thanks for having me.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Absolute pleasure and I love chatting. Before you turn the mic on in the green room,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you told me a bit about where you're from. So where are you from in the world?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>So Brisbane, Australia. So down under, for those playing at

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<v Amanda Rosazza>home.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So Australia down under. It's a big place down under, isn't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it? I mean, Brisbane. So is that. That's east coast, is it?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah. So we're east coast, sort of a little more than halfway up in

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Queensland. So pretty nice weather at the moment, but we're starting to head towards

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<v Amanda Rosazza>winter, so it's going to get a little chilly.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>We're just coming into a hot bit.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yay. I much prefer warmer weather.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Doesn't get that hot, you know. Is Brisbane quite

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<v Joanne Lockwood>warm? If you look back in Northern hemisphere terms, that's like south of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>France. Is it? That's where it gets quite warm and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>sunny.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>It's kind of subtropical. So I'm just trying to think for

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Europe. Yeah. South of France. And I always say Florida, if you think

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<v Amanda Rosazza>of Florida.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Sticky lightning.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah. Humid. And as much as we say it's going to get cold, it's our version of cold,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>which is not very cold at all really.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Okay, so you are kind of med. Yeah. Mediterranean, south of France, Spain

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<v Joanne Lockwood>type. Temperature. Very nice.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah. Yes. And then the further you go up the Queensland coast, the more like

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<v Amanda Rosazza>tropical. Tropical it gets. So like Gold coast when you get off the plane feels like

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<v Amanda Rosazza>bang. Yeah. Heat. Heat smashing you in the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I remember that. That feeling. I was. I went to Cairo to look at the museum and we did the coach tour and we saw the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>pyramids of Giza and the Sphinx, all that kind of thing. I remember we sat in this coach for about an hour and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that we got off and they opened the doors and it was like literally pulling the oven door open, sticking your

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<v Joanne Lockwood>head in it.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>It's real.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes. It's. It's offensive. It's a lot. And if you're not prepared for

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<v Amanda Rosazza>it. Yeah. Adjustment period required.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. I also went to the Dead Sea and swam in the Dead Sea, the one where you

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<v Joanne Lockwood>float. And that was. The water was something like

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<v Joanne Lockwood>in. You're getting in the water. To think I'm going to get some respite by keeping

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<v Joanne Lockwood>cool. But the. The water was even hotter than the air

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<v Joanne Lockwood>temperature. It's like everything is just too hot here.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Oh, my goodness. That's crazy. But still

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<v Amanda Rosazza>recommend. Definitely worth swimming in the Dead Sea.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. The whole. That whole area. It was in. It's

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<v Joanne Lockwood>in. We were in the. Israel. Israel side of the Dead Sea and we went to a place

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a. It's a. It's a fort, which is up high, but technically it's below sea

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you think you're up high but you're not.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Relatively. And it's a fascinating place. Lots of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>history. Yeah, lots of history.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Definitely. Yeah. Yeah. Put it. Put it near the top. If you ever come

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<v Joanne Lockwood>into. Up this way, up north, of course, once there's less trouble going in the world because it's a

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So probably a no fly zone at the moment.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>This is a good point. Yeah. Bit hairy out there at the moment. So move that to the side for

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<v Amanda Rosazza>now. Yes.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. Just go to New Zealand. It's safer down

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, that's. That's a good plan. Just pop over to New Zealand, down to Tassie, maybe

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Hit up one of the islands. Yeah, much safer bet.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. I was in, I was in Melbourne just before COVID actually. So that's, that's my, that's my limited

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<v Joanne Lockwood>further than that bottom strip. You know, the 12 apostles and the Great Ocean Road and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that kind of stuff.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Stunning. That's one of my most favourite parts of the world. No, Melbourne and Adelaide are beautiful

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<v Amanda Rosazza>cities. I'm sure you had an amazing time.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Definitely on the bucket list to go back once I can find a consultancy opportunity that pays for me to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>be there like they did last time. That was a work and pleasure.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Oh, very good. Yes. Okay, we've got to tee that up for you. Definitely.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>We do, we do, we do. Hopefully this podcast will be a launch platform for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that. Who knows? Hinted.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Outstanding.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So in your bio we talked about creative thinking and strategic thinking and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>helping leaders build smarter systems. And when we're chatting in the green room, we're talking about what makes a great leader and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>how leaders can, can implement great systems in their business and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, yeah, absolutely. So, so one thing we spoke about that

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<v Amanda Rosazza>I'd love to kick us off with because it's such an important point as much systems and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>environment. So we were talking about, you know, that scenario where you've got sort of

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<v Amanda Rosazza>one of the frameworks that we use when we're having these conversations and helping leaders

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<v Amanda Rosazza>to set their teams up to win. So being able to an environment

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<v Amanda Rosazza>where everyone can do their best work and wants to do their best work because they

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<v Amanda Rosazza>are comfortable and set up to win is so important. And one of the first things to understand

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<v Amanda Rosazza>as a leader is that not everyone is wired the same. So we can't just all expect

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<v Amanda Rosazza>everyone to want to do the same things in the same way, which I think is really fascinating and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>important.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So people talk. Probably equate this to things like DISC profiling and Myers Briggs and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>those kind of things. I assume we're talking about something beyond those

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Look, it comes from a tool that we use in the Reach

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<v Amanda Rosazza>ecosystem. So it is fundamentally that is where it starts, but it does build

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<v Amanda Rosazza>so much further than that. And they are a helpful

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<v Amanda Rosazza>tool to gain a base level understanding of how People think and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>how people show up, but there's just so much more to people than just

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<v Amanda Rosazza>that. So it's a great tool for a base level understanding and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>we should definitely use it but then we need to sort of go a few steps deeper

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<v Amanda Rosazza>and a few steps further as well.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I agree. I, I like DISC and Myers Briggs as, as a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>baseline. I'm not going to diss it too much, you know, bit like a horoscope, it

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<v Joanne Lockwood>kind of gives you a sort of leaning in. You could sort of see yourself, you can

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<v Joanne Lockwood>identify yourself in what they tell you but it's what you do with it that's the,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the challenge, isn't it?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's it. And so we sort of use it as a common language tool

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<v Amanda Rosazza>so that we can give people context and they can, you know, look at

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<v Amanda Rosazza>themselves and the rest of their team on a quadrant and get that base level

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<v Amanda Rosazza>understanding to go and engage in a conversation or engage in a project and then it's up to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. Do you think people are generally are aware of others

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and others needs or we also self centred?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>I think it's, I think in a lot of cases of course there are our

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<v Amanda Rosazza>outliers. I think in a lot of cases people assume that everyone is the same

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<v Amanda Rosazza>as them and it's an ignorance or just not having sat down and thought

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<v Amanda Rosazza>about if I'm going to go and ask Joanne to help me with this project, what does Joanne

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<v Amanda Rosazza>need to win? It's we, we think about okay, how would

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Amanda succeed in this situation? Not necessarily the person that we're working with

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<v Amanda Rosazza>or we're delegating it to or we're giving the opportunity

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<v Amanda Rosazza>to. So I think in a roundabout way, to answer your question, I think

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<v Amanda Rosazza>it's, it's, it's ignorance and maybe. Well no, not

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<v Amanda Rosazza>maybe. I know the organisation doesn't give the training or

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<v Amanda Rosazza>the right guidance and it's not something we're taught in

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<v Amanda Rosazza>school. Right. So unless we've proactively gone and done some kind

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<v Amanda Rosazza>of professional or personal development, we just don't have the tools to, to think that

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<v Amanda Rosazza>way is belief. What do you think?

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I do agree. I also believe, if you believe this, that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>emotional intelligence is a learned behaviour. You can learn emotional intelligence, you can learn leadership

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<v Joanne Lockwood>skills, you can learn cultural intelligence. Because I've got

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<v Joanne Lockwood>a line in my sand in my history where I wasn't self aware

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and then I became self aware. That first stage of emotional

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<v Joanne Lockwood>intelligence. Do you really care how you show up and what people think of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you. Most people go, ah, I'm old enough and ugly enough

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<v Joanne Lockwood>now. I don't care what people think of me. I'm over 40. Whatever it is. I went the other way when I got

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<v Joanne Lockwood>over 40. I started realising that it did matter. And relationships are far better

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<v Joanne Lockwood>when you adapt your style and thinking to other

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<v Joanne Lockwood>people's.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. No, I wholeheartedly agree. And I definitely had that line in the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>sand moment myself and just kind of gone, oh, wait, I can get much better outcomes

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<v Amanda Rosazza>and I feel better and they feel better and everybody wins when we're conscious and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>proactive and start with that in mind. It's such a powerful change in

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<v Amanda Rosazza>mindset and behaviour. Absolutely agree.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>room. And having to time slice your communication style,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>so much easier. Just be you and talk about you. And so you've got to try and retrain the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>plasticity of your brain to think in a different way, haven't

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely true. And you're 100%

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<v Amanda Rosazza>right. The first, you know, especially if you're interacting with a lot of different people

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<v Amanda Rosazza>battery. Right. Because we're having to reach into these different. You know, the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>beauty of it is it's like a muscle. The more you work it, the stronger it becomes and the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>easier it becomes to be more, I guess, elastic and sort of even if you

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I was definitely more extrovert

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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's a really good point and I would agree with that because I, I would

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<v Amanda Rosazza>cultural embedment programme. Awesome

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<v Amanda Rosazza>programme. We do. So we do the two days where I'm co

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<v Amanda Rosazza>storey and it can get quite emotional. But it's a great way for the team to get to know each other

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<v Amanda Rosazza>in sort of a safe environment because they've spent the first day

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<v Amanda Rosazza>I would have been totally fine, but now I'm. I'm like, I can't talk to

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<v Amanda Rosazza>him. Totally done by the end of that

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<v Amanda Rosazza>dinner. Because you're showing up in a way that gets the best result for

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<v Amanda Rosazza>everybody else in the room, not just you. So, yeah,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Maybe without realising, I've maybe just redefined introversion and extroversion just

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<v Amanda Rosazza>I think so.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yep. The amount I care about absorbing that

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, that's it. And you just kind of just firing off and you're either with me or against

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<v Amanda Rosazza>me. Let's. Let's go. Whereas. Yeah, that's

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<v Amanda Rosazza>it. No. Yes. We have done great work so

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly. Excellent work, team.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So we talked in the green room about, you know, the people

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Right.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>It's. It's from an organisational point of view, when you're talking about

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<v Joanne Lockwood>like that, you have to have rigid. Well, rigid policies and structure, don't

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<v Amanda Rosazza>You do, yeah. So. So something that. Where. So if we're looking at sort

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<v Amanda Rosazza>right? They're. They're pretty fixed and they make sure that we're compliant and legal and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>all of those things. But if we look at the procedures. So how do we create wins for

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<v Amanda Rosazza>our leadership team, for our team and our clients, our

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<v Amanda Rosazza>guests, our customers, whoever it might be. Being able to give people

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<v Amanda Rosazza>guardrails as opposed to rigid standard operating procedures is

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<v Amanda Rosazza>something that's really powerful. And we talk about SOPs or standard operating procedures for the real

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<v Amanda Rosazza>world. So how do we set up everybody that's going to read this

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<v Amanda Rosazza>procedure to win Making sure that it's not just written by one type of human

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<v Amanda Rosazza>for a hypothetical situation. We actually sit down with the different players in the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>personalities and the different approaches to work so that people, you know, I always say this, you know,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>we want people to be able to do their best work, so we give them the tools and they want to

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I've worked in environments where you can clearly see that people operating

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<v Joanne Lockwood>whoa, slow down. We just think about this more carefully when you do this. Other people go, well, we just got to run for the finish

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<v Joanne Lockwood>line. We've got to go and do this. You know what people in the middle go, we need a process for this, we need a process for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that. What we're going to have. It's a real nightmare in a business where you've got all these competing things and everyone's getting

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<v Joanne Lockwood>rules. This person won't do anything. I can't make a decision.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes, it's real. It's real. It is a

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<v Amanda Rosazza>as much as we give position it. So we give our rule followers what they're

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<v Amanda Rosazza>procedure. Those that want a little bit more fluidity,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>but we still need you to colour inside the lines to get this result and

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<v Amanda Rosazza>helping them have guardrails so that they can still be their best selves within

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<v Amanda Rosazza>this. As long as you give me this result, we're good. And that's a big part of how we

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So the other sort of person often described maybe is the gifted jerk,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you need to fire first because they're not helping the organisation, they're creating toxic environment

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<v Joanne Lockwood>or something. So how can you encourage this, the team player from somebody who's

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Look, that is a tough one. To your point, I

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<v Amanda Rosazza>would. So if I was going into that organisation, I'd put them in a

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<v Amanda Rosazza>feathers? And we've been in organisations where both have

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<v Amanda Rosazza>been. The case had great results when they just needed a little bit of

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<v Amanda Rosazza>guidance or often it's helping the others leverage them, if that makes

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<v Amanda Rosazza>sense. So if there's something that they are genuinely really good at, not

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<v Amanda Rosazza>something. Also, we tend to hold onto bad hires or people that have

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<v Amanda Rosazza>We've. We've had to, you know, make those tough decisions because they're

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<v Amanda Rosazza>effect of that behaviour. So it depends is the short

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I was in exactly that position where this is going back into the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>partner, whatever they were called at the time, came to us and said, so and so's probation is up at the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>end of the week. Do you want to keep them? It was like what we

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<v Joanne Lockwood>were. We were on the cusp of. This person wasn't really. They were kind of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>okay. Not okay, kind of. And they sort of said, look, we got three

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>For a while.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>We're committed. 100.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>We're committed. And I remember my, My manager and I, we sat there and we looked at each other and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>went, wow. It seems very cold and calculated. This is a human being and they've got a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>they. They're all right, really. They're a nice person. And we fell down on

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<v Joanne Lockwood>the. They're a nice person. And we decided that they were

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<v Joanne Lockwood>nice. They were lovely. They were a bit ineffectual. They were. We always get frustrated with

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<v Joanne Lockwood>them. And then six months later, we're all looking at each other going, we should have, we should have cut

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And it's, you have to make that wrong decision once to learn the wrong decision,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Well, exactly. And I've been there myself. I've, I've held on to team members to be

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<v Amanda Rosazza>like, oh, they're so lovely, but they, you know, they're costing you money

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<v Amanda Rosazza>ultimately. You know, as we're running a business, not a charity, we need to make money

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<v Amanda Rosazza>ultimately. So. And what I find interesting, you know, you're talking about that happening a

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<v Amanda Rosazza>little while ago. It still happens. I it with. I don't think I've had a client I've ever

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<v Amanda Rosazza>a lot of this is if you onboard people really

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<v Amanda Rosazza>and the speed at which we move and all of those

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<v Amanda Rosazza>that and then do a really good onboarding. Someone like that will generally

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<v Amanda Rosazza>self select out before the end of their probation or you do have that opportunity to

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<v Amanda Rosazza>them. Because if you're keeping them where they can't win or they can't do their best work,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>then you know, it's not good for anybody really. So if you, I think if we change

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, it's a fair enough. This role isn't for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>you. There are other roles that are for you, but they're just not

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, it's beautifully said, Joanne. Beautifully

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Could grab might actually be us and not you. It might be that the culture we've created

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly right. Exactly right. And I think there's this, or at least I notice it

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<v Amanda Rosazza>think educating people or helping them see that, and especially, you know,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. And that's what the onboarding and selection process should all be about, is to

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Is that stuff in the review mode? Not. Or the not actual game footage sort of thing, isn't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it? You know, this is just a pretend environment.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>We're both BSing each other. You're trying to sell me the role and I'm trying to sell you

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<v Joanne Lockwood>me.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, exactly, yeah.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And that's when we get to demo mode. Get the covers off quickly and go, well, what's the reality

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<v Joanne Lockwood>here? Yes. It's a shit place to work and I don't like it or whatever it may

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<v Joanne Lockwood>be.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, yeah, exactly. So if we. More of that honesty up front

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<v Amanda Rosazza>just sets everyone up to win. But, yeah, absolutely.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>So. So the biggest favour you can do for yourselves out there, team,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>be vigilant when you're doing your recruitment process, rapid values

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<v Amanda Rosazza>alignment, cultural fit. And then if your onboarding is

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<v Amanda Rosazza>robust and you have clear milestones where they should be performing week

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<v Amanda Rosazza>one, month one, like first 90 days, then everyone's set up for win and you'll know

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<v Amanda Rosazza>pretty quickly whether you have fit or not.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Let's dive into. You mentioned culture fit a couple of times, and that's a very subjective thing, isn't

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<v Joanne Lockwood>it? And it's, you know, we've got to be careful here. So what is culture fit done well

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<v Joanne Lockwood>and when is culture fit done badly? Let's talk about the difference of

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<v Joanne Lockwood>those.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>So I always look at it from the perspective of you've got your vision, your

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<v Amanda Rosazza>mission, your values. If someone can get excited about those, it's generally

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<v Amanda Rosazza>a good culture fit. If they're excited about the why, the why we do things, then

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<v Amanda Rosazza>they will find a way to make magic. And I'm a big Disney fan, so I always

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<v Amanda Rosazza>refer back to this for, you know, their guest, to their

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<v Amanda Rosazza>customer, their client, whoever it might be. Whereas I think

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<v Amanda Rosazza>it's too bad at

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<v Joanne Lockwood>this mode, isn't it, that's they're passionate about the mission and the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>passion.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, that's it. Whereas if they're not and they're just kind of dialling it

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<v Amanda Rosazza>in, I think it's a little bit harder for them to do their best

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<v Amanda Rosazza>work. I'm sure you've seen it yourself when someone's like, I'm just here to do a job, I'm

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<v Amanda Rosazza>here to make sure the wheels don't fall off the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>bus. Or versus. I'm really excited because, use the Disney

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<v Amanda Rosazza>example, these guests, you know, this could be a once in a lifetime trip for them and I

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<v Amanda Rosazza>want to make sure that they have the best possible time. There's sort

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<v Amanda Rosazza>of. There's a difference in that energy and that to me is what a good cultural fit

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<v Amanda Rosazza>in. And then there's layers above and beyond that and it's where the organisation

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<v Amanda Rosazza>takes care of its people as well. So making sure that we're setting

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<v Amanda Rosazza>everyone up for success, no matter what their background, like, you know, how they come

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<v Amanda Rosazza>to us, making sure that we're setting everybody up to

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<v Amanda Rosazza>win. So that's another layer of it because some organisations are doing it really like

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<v Amanda Rosazza>amazing work, others are doing it really poorly. So

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<v Amanda Rosazza>there's. It sort of works both ways, if that makes sense.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I did some work back in my old days when I was doing IT work and I ran

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<v Joanne Lockwood>my own IT consultancy and I did some work for funeral

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<v Joanne Lockwood>directors. And I remember the principal of the funeral director, when I was

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<v Joanne Lockwood>installing his systems and he sat me down and sort of said, just to explain what we're

428
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<v Joanne Lockwood>about, he says, we get one opportunity to

429
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<v Joanne Lockwood>bury your mother. Yeah, we cannot get it right next time,

430
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<v Joanne Lockwood>so we have to be on time, it has to work all these

431
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<v Joanne Lockwood>things. We get one chance, so there can not be any

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<v Joanne Lockwood>risk. And they're all geared around. There's an

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<v Joanne Lockwood>absolute. It has to work once, first time, because there's never a second

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<v Joanne Lockwood>time. And he explained that to me and that was just the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>culture. There's also this ultimate respect. If that red light flashed, that meant a

436
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<v Joanne Lockwood>family were visiting in one of the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>rooms. Therefore, at that point, there, quiet, shush,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>respect. Everyone sombered down a bit. The moment stopped

439
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<v Joanne Lockwood>flashing. It was lively, bantery, jokey. But there was an

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<v Joanne Lockwood>immediate. This is. There's a family going on here. That's their

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<v Joanne Lockwood>time. And it was a real cultural thing and I was really impressed with

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<v Joanne Lockwood>that. Everybody bought into that and I, because they briefed me as a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>supplier when I was there on site, I bought into it as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>well. I knew what was important to them. And I think that's what we're talking about here is

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<v Joanne Lockwood>educating people into the way things work best

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<v Joanne Lockwood>here.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes. No. And that is a beautiful

448
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<v Amanda Rosazza>example. Thank you. That's amazing. Yes. So how do

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<v Amanda Rosazza>we do our best work? How do we show up in the best possible

450
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<v Amanda Rosazza>way? And little things like that are what make all the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>difference. That's some chills. I love that.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Because what we can't have though is culture fit as an excuse for

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<v Joanne Lockwood>toxic culture or enforcing. Oh, we go to the pub, we do this and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>we're bros. We high five each other and ring bells and jump up and down and get

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<v Joanne Lockwood>excited. And you must be that bouncy person as

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<v Joanne Lockwood>well. That's not culture fitness.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>No, not at all. Not at all. So you. Okay, so let's draw a line there so we could

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<v Amanda Rosazza>have a culture of we celebrate our win. It doesn't have to look like, you know,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>what is it? The chest thing and the, the

460
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<v Amanda Rosazza>bumping. The bells and. Yeah, the chest bump. Yeah,

461
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<v Amanda Rosazza>yeah. It doesn't have to look like that. We can have a culture of celebrating

462
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<v Amanda Rosazza>our wins. Absolutely. And as a leader, you can understand what that looks

463
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<v Amanda Rosazza>like for each member of your team. Because celebration is something that

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<v Amanda Rosazza>people are so ignorant of and it still astounds

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<v Amanda Rosazza>me. To your point, they think that we're all just going to have a party in the

466
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<v Amanda Rosazza>lunchroom or we're all going to ring the bell. But when you actually check in

467
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<v Amanda Rosazza>with each member of your team, they like to celebrate individual wins

468
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<v Amanda Rosazza>differently. They like to celebrate group wins

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<v Amanda Rosazza>differently. So get everyone together and understand how they want to

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<v Amanda Rosazza>celebrate. Let them dictate what the celebration looks

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<v Amanda Rosazza>like. Because when they've decided what it looks like, they've got more buy

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<v Amanda Rosazza>in and they actually feel celebrated. Not like this is the most horrific

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<v Amanda Rosazza>thing ever. Can I please just exit stage left at this

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<v Amanda Rosazza>point? So, yeah, yeah, that's a great

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<v Amanda Rosazza>example.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Overly recognised.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's it.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. Some people just.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>They don't resonate with that praise, do they?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Percent so when you know when you're bringing in a new team member or

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<v Amanda Rosazza>even if a team member has left or you're forming a new team, it's about having

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<v Amanda Rosazza>those conversations and going, okay, These are our values and part of

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<v Amanda Rosazza>what we do is we celebrate the wins. How are we going to do that as a

485
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<v Amanda Rosazza>team? What matters to each of you? And then deciding as a team,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>that's. That's really powerful.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Going back into my old banking days in the 90s, I remember I had this

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<v Joanne Lockwood>person working for me and I think we had a crisis going

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<v Joanne Lockwood>on. There was something flying around and this one person was all over the

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<v Joanne Lockwood>place. He was staying late, he was doing this. He was

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<v Joanne Lockwood>everywhere. He was helping people and helping us avert this

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<v Joanne Lockwood>crisis. And he was an unsung hero. And I remember

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<v Joanne Lockwood>sending. I remember to this day, I sent him an email on Lotus

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Notes. Going way back into the 90s, then.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Just saying thank you for being such a helpful

497
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<v Joanne Lockwood>bastard. I love it. That's what I said. Just that one phrase. And he came up to me the next day and

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<v Joanne Lockwood>he sort of said, that is the most relevant

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<v Joanne Lockwood>praise. You know, that is the best thank you I've ever had in my

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<v Joanne Lockwood>life. Because I was speaking his language. That was a kind of a relationship we

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<v Joanne Lockwood>had.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>It wasn't fluffy, it wasn't performative. It was

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<v Joanne Lockwood>sincere. From here, the way I would have spoken to him face to face. And he went, that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>meant so much to me. Thank you. Thank you for recognising me in that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>way. I didn't think you'd noticed.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's awesome.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>That's where praise and reward really resonate, when you figure out what that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>thing is, isn't it?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. Yeah. And exactly what you

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<v Amanda Rosazza>said. Speaking their language. Right. And it matters so much more because you've taken

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<v Amanda Rosazza>that time to understand them as a person and acknowledge

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<v Amanda Rosazza>them. It's. It's.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, yeah.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's where the magic is.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. We don't always want the parking spot at the front of the building with employee of the Month on it, do

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<v Joanne Lockwood>we?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's it. And some people are not motivated by money. You can give them a pay rise

519
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<v Amanda Rosazza>and. Okay, cool. I want you to tell me I did a good

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<v Amanda Rosazza>job.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Right.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Everyone's motivated by different things. So understanding what drives your people is

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<v Amanda Rosazza>insane.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>The other realisation I had a little while ago is. I think it was. I was listening to an

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<v Joanne Lockwood>audiobook. Utopia for Realists or Humankind? Which one of the two by Rutger

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Bregman. One of the points he made, amongst many others, is that

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<v Joanne Lockwood>people don't show up in the morning to do a bad job. Nobody believes

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<v Joanne Lockwood>they are the dick. Nobody believes that they are the problem. Everybody believes that they are being Their best

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<v Joanne Lockwood>self.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>So if they're not to you, where's the gap in

532
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<v Joanne Lockwood>perception? Why are they not seeing what you see and why are you not seeing what they

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<v Joanne Lockwood>see? And that's often a communication barrier.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. Could not agree more. And people, generally speaking are poor

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<v Amanda Rosazza>communicators. They're even worse in a corporate environment because we haven't given them the

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<v Amanda Rosazza>tools that they need to communicate. So one of the big things that we

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<v Amanda Rosazza>advocate for is as a bare minimum helping people understand

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<v Amanda Rosazza>basic communication. But moreover, how do we have those more challenging conversations

539
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<v Amanda Rosazza>if there is, if there is a gap? If I think I'm doing a great job, just

540
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<v Amanda Rosazza>assuming because I get a high five occasionally from one of the other sales team,

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<v Amanda Rosazza>how does Joanne then come to me and say, well actually Amanda, there's a couple

542
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<v Amanda Rosazza>of opportunities here that we need to work on. So

543
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<v Amanda Rosazza>teaching people how to have those conversations, how to give feedback where we're often not

544
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<v Amanda Rosazza>empowering leaders or you know, even sort of future leaders

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<v Amanda Rosazza>to be able to have those conversations with their

546
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<v Amanda Rosazza>teammates. So it's, yeah, just a neglected area and a massive

547
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<v Amanda Rosazza>opportunity in so many organisations.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And challenging conversations are challenging, aren't they? Yes, it's

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<v Joanne Lockwood>obviously more, it's an obvious statement but we have millions of conversations that aren't challenging so we don't even

550
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<v Joanne Lockwood>think about them. But the challenging ones are the ones we, we get anxiety, we're worried about, we sometimes be

551
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<v Joanne Lockwood>ill prepare, we shoot from the hip, we go off half cocked and we're not prepared for

552
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<v Joanne Lockwood>this eruption of emotion that confronts us from

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<v Joanne Lockwood>them.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly, exactly. And that said, with a few tools in your back pocket, you'll over

555
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<v Amanda Rosazza>like you'll still feel terrified the first time you do it and that's okay, feel it

556
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<v Amanda Rosazza>and do it anyway and then you'll build that muscle like we were talking about

557
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<v Amanda Rosazza>earlier. But we just, we haven't given people the

558
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<v Amanda Rosazza>tools. So frameworks are so powerful and you can bake that into this is how we have

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<v Amanda Rosazza>those challenging conversations. You can give everybody in the organisation a

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<v Amanda Rosazza>framework, teach them how to utilise it. Please don't role

561
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<v Amanda Rosazza>play. Everyone hates role plays, but please

562
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<v Amanda Rosazza>don't. But show them how, how it can be effective, especially like

563
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<v Amanda Rosazza>as. And if you want other people to use the tool in the organisation, use it as the

564
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<v Amanda Rosazza>leader. Be set the standard, set the example. And another thing not to go off on a

565
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<v Amanda Rosazza>tangent, also leaders please ask for feedback. That's another way that you can

566
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<v Amanda Rosazza>unlock what's going on in your team. So so many leaders are prepared to give

567
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<v Amanda Rosazza>feedback. And there's a lot out there that are not yet asking for feedback from

568
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<v Amanda Rosazza>their team. So things are simple. To avoid things escalating into a difficult

569
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<v Amanda Rosazza>conversation, it could be, Joanne, how can I better set you up for success next

570
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<v Amanda Rosazza>time we tackle a project like this? Asking for feedback on how you can serve your

571
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<v Amanda Rosazza>people is something that will be a game changer for you as

572
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<v Amanda Rosazza>well.

573
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<v Joanne Lockwood>And starting the conversation off by listening. Because often you sit down in these

574
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<v Joanne Lockwood>challenging conversations, the first thing you want to do is, I want to tell you that you're

575
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<v Joanne Lockwood>wrong. Which is never a good foundation.

576
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Nope.

577
00:36:00.650 --> 00:36:03.810
<v Joanne Lockwood>A good leader would probably say, how are you doing? What's going

578
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<v Joanne Lockwood>on? Tell me about how your work is at the moment. What's going well, Any areas you think we could work

579
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<v Joanne Lockwood>on together to improve. And if they've got any emotional intelligence at all, they

580
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<v Joanne Lockwood>will know what's going wrong in their world. You just need to allow them to help you

581
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<v Joanne Lockwood>unlock that. And then you can coach them on it, can't you?

582
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<v Amanda Rosazza>A hundred percent. A hundred percent. If you go in straight for the throat, nobody wins

583
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<v Amanda Rosazza>there. But having that structure that you just explained to the team, it's super

584
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<v Amanda Rosazza>powerful. It comes down to curiosity, right? Instead of us having our bias and

585
00:36:36.930 --> 00:36:41.210
<v Amanda Rosazza>our judgement and all these assumptions, often we'll go into those difficult conversations

586
00:36:41.630 --> 00:36:46.510
<v Amanda Rosazza>believing we know what's actually going on. But if we approach it with curiosity and say,

587
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<v Amanda Rosazza>hey, Joanne, tell me what's happening? What's your workload? Like, you know, start the conversation

588
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<v Amanda Rosazza>there and like you say, they will know if something needs to be brought

589
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<v Amanda Rosazza>up. And they will. They will tell you exactly what's going on and you can workshop

590
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<v Amanda Rosazza>it.

591
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Suddenly, someone turning up late every day, 10 minutes late every day, but they've been

592
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<v Joanne Lockwood>reliable. It's like, what's going on? Oh, yeah,

593
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Babysitter. Or this. Or they've changed the bus

594
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<v Joanne Lockwood>timetable. That's the earliest bus I can get. I had to

595
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<v Joanne Lockwood>run. Or my car's broken down. Exactly. Sometimes you do a bit of

596
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<v Joanne Lockwood>fact-finding. Oh, right. Okay. The only bus you can get is that

597
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<v Joanne Lockwood>one. Or you have to leave the night before. Okay, so can we restructure your

598
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<v Joanne Lockwood>day?

599
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly.

600
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<v Joanne Lockwood>You're gonna make it. Make it up at lunchtime or you. You just shift your

601
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<v Joanne Lockwood>window. Fine. There's no issue. It's just you. Yeah,

602
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<v Joanne Lockwood>but they're too scared to tell you because they didn't know how you'd

603
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<v Joanne Lockwood>react.

604
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, exactly. Exactly. Whereas if you just go in curious

605
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<v Amanda Rosazza>and ask what's happening? Instead of why have you been late for the last six days out of

606
00:37:49.139 --> 00:37:53.660
<v Amanda Rosazza>seven or whatever it is? You know, it's. Yeah, they will feel that support

607
00:37:53.980 --> 00:37:58.660
<v Amanda Rosazza>and, you know, then you move into solutions mode. Right, okay, well, what do we do with

608
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<v Amanda Rosazza>that? What's. Let's find a way to make this work for both of

609
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<v Amanda Rosazza>us.

610
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, but managers could be scared as well in these conversations. I mean, I was talking to somebody who was

611
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<v Joanne Lockwood>in a situation where this person wasn't performing and they were scared to

612
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<v Joanne Lockwood>approach them because the person they was having trouble with was black and they were

613
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<v Joanne Lockwood>white. And they were worried through their own biases, they may be perceived as being racist

614
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<v Joanne Lockwood>by giving this person constructive feedback or addressing this performance

615
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<v Joanne Lockwood>issue. And what happened was this performance issue never got resolved and

616
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<v Joanne Lockwood>eventually they ended up terminating this person because they were beyond

617
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<v Joanne Lockwood>recovery. Whereas if they have said something at day one, it wouldn't have been an

618
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<v Joanne Lockwood>issue. So again, the managers have to realise that there are anxieties holding them

619
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<v Joanne Lockwood>back. Their affinity bias, their in group bias versus the people who are out group,

620
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<v Joanne Lockwood>how they have conversations that they need to unlock their own communication skills, don't

621
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<v Joanne Lockwood>they?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely, absolutely. And if you think of, you know, if we had have had that, that conversation

623
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<v Amanda Rosazza>when we should have had it, we, we were doing that person a favour as

624
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<v Amanda Rosazza>well. Like, it's not just when we avoid them, we're not helping our team, we're not

625
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<v Amanda Rosazza>helping them to grow or to, you know, make that. It could have been such a,

626
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<v Amanda Rosazza>at that point, it might have been such a slight change in behaviour, but then because we just let it

627
00:39:16.550 --> 00:39:20.030
<v Amanda Rosazza>fester for. Want a better phrasing, it's like deviated and become

628
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<v Amanda Rosazza>untenable. Like you say, yeah, you, you need to have those conversations

629
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<v Amanda Rosazza>in order to serve your people and allow them to set them up for

630
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<v Amanda Rosazza>success.

631
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<v Joanne Lockwood>So I'm a manager, a leader in a business at some hierarchy

632
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<v Joanne Lockwood>within it. What are the trigger points that I should be aware of

633
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<v Joanne Lockwood>that tell me that I need to either coach my team better, coach my people better, or even

634
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<v Joanne Lockwood>coach who's above me better how to react to me. So what the kind of trigger points that spark

635
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<v Joanne Lockwood>this. Hmm, I need to do something.

636
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<v Amanda Rosazza>So it's generally, if you have

637
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<v Amanda Rosazza>repeated. What's the right word, Joanne? So repeated deviation

638
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<v Amanda Rosazza>from our norms, our standards, our, you know, position descriptions, all of those

639
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<v Amanda Rosazza>things that are written in our playbook, if you like. If there's repeated deviations,

640
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<v Amanda Rosazza>once it's, you know, okay, second time it's a coincidence, the

641
00:40:14.830 --> 00:40:16.790
<v Amanda Rosazza>third time we've gotta pay attention

642
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<v Joanne Lockwood>so to your point about behavioural issue, at that

643
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<v Joanne Lockwood>point.

644
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, exactly, spot on. So at that point, I would suggest sitting down and having an

645
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<v Amanda Rosazza>informal conversation with the team member and

646
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<v Amanda Rosazza>just. Just exactly as we said. First step is to understand what's going

647
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<v Amanda Rosazza>on. And if they're late, for example, and they don't have a good reason, okay, so

648
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<v Amanda Rosazza>remind them gentle reminders of, you know, we have to start at

649
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<v Amanda Rosazza>xyz, I need you here by this time. Remind them of our policies

650
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<v Amanda Rosazza>and procedures, make that clear, make sure they have understanding, get them to repeat it back to you, all

651
00:40:51.400 --> 00:40:56.320
<v Amanda Rosazza>those pretty standard things. Once you've done that, if we still see the same behaviour, that's when

652
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<v Amanda Rosazza>we need to go into some more formal performance improvement plan, style

653
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<v Amanda Rosazza>scenario. If we don't see improvement there, that's when we need to ask the question

654
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<v Amanda Rosazza>if we're a good fit. So, yeah, is that

655
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<v Amanda Rosazza>helpful? Is that kind of what you're looking for?

656
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, I'm just thinking. And then when you walk in day one,

657
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<v Joanne Lockwood>what are the warning signs you look for? What are the first ways you would

658
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<v Joanne Lockwood>intervene? Or I presume you start by listening a bit of thought

659
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<v Joanne Lockwood>because. Just listening.

660
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, yeah, just so I'll normally start by

661
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<v Amanda Rosazza>just. Yeah, hanging out and just listening. What I'll ask

662
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<v Amanda Rosazza>at different levels of the organisation, what's your bottleneck? What's your biggest

663
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<v Amanda Rosazza>frustration? Treat it as therapy, Tell me, bring me your problems, bring me your

664
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<v Amanda Rosazza>challenges. And then it becomes pretty obvious pretty

665
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<v Amanda Rosazza>quickly where the challenges are. You will normally have

666
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<v Amanda Rosazza>a couple of team members who are. Who need extra

667
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<v Amanda Rosazza>support. And whether that's somewhat like, to our point earlier, whether it's someone we've

668
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<v Amanda Rosazza>held onto for too long or whether it's someone that genuinely just hasn't had the guidance that they've

669
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<v Amanda Rosazza>needed. And I've been in organisations where we've had both, we've had one or the

670
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<v Amanda Rosazza>other. And there's always a way to move past

671
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<v Amanda Rosazza>it. It's just we can't bury our heads in the

672
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<v Amanda Rosazza>sand. We've just got to be intentional about it. And. Yeah, so the first step in the process is

673
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<v Amanda Rosazza>literally just hanging out, talking to people. Look what's happening in a Slack thread

674
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<v Amanda Rosazza>asking what's happening in your meetings? What do your meetings look

675
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<v Amanda Rosazza>like? How would you. How would you rate your meetings? Let's show me your KPIs, your

676
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<v Amanda Rosazza>OKRs. How are we performing? Are we. Are we all heading towards the same North

677
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Star? It's crazy the amount of organisations that I walk into and different

678
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<v Amanda Rosazza>departments, silos have different ideas of what North Star looks like

679
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<v Amanda Rosazza>or the vision or the mission. Just doing those temperature cheques and having those

680
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<v Amanda Rosazza>conversations is where we start. And then from there you can

681
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<v Amanda Rosazza>sort of see where the opportunities are and what's, what's going to stack the deck in their favour the

682
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<v Amanda Rosazza>most. What's going to move the needle forward the most?

683
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Companies with lots of motivational posters all over the wall. Is that a warning sign or is that

684
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<v Joanne Lockwood>a.

685
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Okay, yes, if so, in those situations. So either the motivational posters or their

686
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<v Amanda Rosazza>values are written on the wall. If I will always do this, if their values are written

687
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<v Amanda Rosazza>on the wall and they're prominent, I will go and spot check

688
00:43:22.986 --> 00:43:25.470
<v Amanda Rosazza>someone. I'll go into the kitchen and I'll

689
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<v Joanne Lockwood>say, what are they?

690
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, Joanne, what are the values? 9 times out of 10 they can give me 1 out

691
00:43:31.070 --> 00:43:34.710
<v Amanda Rosazza>of 5 or however many there are, and that's usually a pretty good

692
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<v Amanda Rosazza>indicator. Then there'll be other organisations, they'll have them written on the wall, but it's

693
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<v Amanda Rosazza>part of their common language. Completely different

694
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<v Amanda Rosazza>vibe. Right. Completely different energy. So someone

695
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<v Amanda Rosazza>might. What's an example? Let's say they're, they're working on a project, they're putting a

696
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<v Amanda Rosazza>rack together, say, like for an IT

697
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<v Amanda Rosazza>installation. And their value is, I don't know,

698
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<v Joanne Lockwood>not perfection, but good enough is good enough.

699
00:43:58.770 --> 00:44:01.610
<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, there you go. Let's say that was their value. So

700
00:44:01.610 --> 00:44:06.090
<v Amanda Rosazza>they. Maybe we've got two technicians that are working together and they say good enough is good

701
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<v Amanda Rosazza>enough. Are we there? What do we. Or what would, what would we need to do to get us

702
00:44:09.850 --> 00:44:14.610
<v Amanda Rosazza>there? If that's part of their common language, that's, that's a different, different energy

703
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<v Amanda Rosazza>to, you know, when they can't tell me what they are. So it's, it can be a warning

704
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<v Amanda Rosazza>sign if the people not embodying what is written on the

705
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<v Amanda Rosazza>wall. And then you have the organisations that can't tell me what their vision, mission

706
00:44:28.470 --> 00:44:33.430
<v Amanda Rosazza>and values are because they haven't articulated them either at all or in such a

707
00:44:33.430 --> 00:44:38.110
<v Amanda Rosazza>long time. And then, you know, you have the ones that have them in a drawer

708
00:44:38.110 --> 00:44:41.230
<v Amanda Rosazza>somewhere and they have to go and dig it out and blow the dust off

709
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<v Amanda Rosazza>it. So, yeah, there's a, there's a broad range of, of how that shows up,

710
00:44:45.870 --> 00:44:50.750
<v Amanda Rosazza>but it is very interesting. Often if it is on the wall, they can't tell me what they are, even

711
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<v Amanda Rosazza>though they're right there.

712
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<v Joanne Lockwood>And that forms some of the basis of recruitment, recruit, marketing, employer, value proposition, all these kind of

713
00:44:56.400 --> 00:45:01.360
<v Joanne Lockwood>buzzwords you hear talked about. You have to try and represent who you are because often

714
00:45:01.360 --> 00:45:06.160
<v Joanne Lockwood>companies sell who they're not or who they aspire to be. And then that's when demo mode kicks

715
00:45:06.160 --> 00:45:10.280
<v Joanne Lockwood>in. You know, you think, oh, this is the aspiration of the company. And you get in and go, everyone's really

716
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<v Joanne Lockwood>miserable.

717
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah.

718
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<v Joanne Lockwood>The demo doesn't live up to the reality, does it?

719
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<v Amanda Rosazza>That's right. And. And that is something I've. I've actually pulled a couple of clients up

720
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<v Amanda Rosazza>on. It's like, okay, this is, this is how you're selling yourself and this is what I'

721
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<v Amanda Rosazza>experiencing when I come into your office. There's a massive disconnect

722
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<v Amanda Rosazza>there. So we either need to change how we're selling ourselves or we need to bridge

723
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<v Amanda Rosazza>the gap in here.

724
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<v Joanne Lockwood>So, yeah, your staff surveys, your pulse surveys have

725
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<v Joanne Lockwood>to. You have to overlay them with your expectations, hold them up to the light and

726
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<v Joanne Lockwood>check and check. The holes are in the same place.

727
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes. Beautifully said. Absolutely.

728
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes. You need to, need to get, get super clear on

729
00:45:51.090 --> 00:45:54.610
<v Amanda Rosazza>that. If they are not in the same place, what are you going to do about

730
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<v Amanda Rosazza>it? What is the solution? And move quickly and don't

731
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<v Amanda Rosazza>ignore it because those little problems become big

732
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<v Amanda Rosazza>problems.

733
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I often say to clients that you should stand outside the front of your building,

734
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<v Joanne Lockwood>metaphorically stand outside the front of your

735
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<v Joanne Lockwood>building. And what do you see from the outside? What do you see as a person walking by, as a

736
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<v Joanne Lockwood>consumer, as a potential employee? Sniff and smell. What do you feel

737
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<v Joanne Lockwood>like? What do you smell like from the outside? And then step into the door and do the same and go,

738
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<v Joanne Lockwood>where's the disconnect? Where am I? Where am I? What am I

739
00:46:27.987 --> 00:46:32.968
<v Joanne Lockwood>missing? And is it C-suite smell one thing and the shop floor smell a different thing, you know,

740
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<v Joanne Lockwood>because you've got, again, a disconnect in the organization as

741
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<v Joanne Lockwood>well.

742
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. So common. And a lot of that is

743
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<v Amanda Rosazza>silos. Right. We have departments that are, aren't, you know, cross collaborating or

744
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<v Amanda Rosazza>cross pollinating. That's, that's a whole other thing. But to your point, I have a client

745
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<v Amanda Rosazza>and amazing client. They do premium consumer goods

746
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<v Amanda Rosazza>or awesome company. You would not know it. Walking into their building is a hot

747
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<v Amanda Rosazza>mess. And I'm like, team, this is your

748
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<v Amanda Rosazza>brand. This is where you're positioning yourself. I walk into the office, it looks

749
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<v Amanda Rosazza>like. I don't even know how to describe a hot mess is what I would describe it

750
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<v Amanda Rosazza>as. But, you know, so, like, yeah, everything has to be connected, whether it's, you know,

751
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<v Amanda Rosazza>our client experience has to be connected. To our team experience, to our leadership

752
00:47:21.100 --> 00:47:25.820
<v Amanda Rosazza>experience. It has to all connect back to the vision, the mission, the values, why,

753
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<v Amanda Rosazza>why we do what we do. And so often, as I'm sure you've seen it like you're describing,

754
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<v Amanda Rosazza>there's these little just disconnects everywhere, everything come together

755
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<v Joanne Lockwood>and that's where the magic happens, isn't it? Yeah. And I always talk about belongingness is the

756
00:47:41.070 --> 00:47:45.950
<v Joanne Lockwood>intersection of all of these various elements and when you 100% and

757
00:47:45.950 --> 00:47:50.550
<v Joanne Lockwood>everything else aligns in that perfect symmetry, that's belonging, that's where you really

758
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<v Joanne Lockwood>resonate with everything that's going on, don't you?

759
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely agree. Absolutely agree. And what do you

760
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<v Amanda Rosazza>think? I'm going to ask you a question and what do you think, what do you think

761
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<v Amanda Rosazza>stops people from getting to that place of belonging to.

762
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<v Joanne Lockwood>It's really hard to define. So ephemeral, I think is the word I'm looking

763
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<v Joanne Lockwood>for. So nebulous and it means something different to different

764
00:48:12.884 --> 00:48:17.530
<v Joanne Lockwood>people. All you can hope to do is create an environment where your culture fit

765
00:48:17.530 --> 00:48:21.742
<v Joanne Lockwood>people for a better way of describing it, go, wow, this is for me and the

766
00:48:21.742 --> 00:48:25.954
<v Joanne Lockwood>people. It isn't for go, it isn't for me. And you go, that's absolutely

767
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<v Joanne Lockwood>fine. I'm not saying you should have a bias where you only have like minded people,

768
00:48:30.891 --> 00:48:35.320
<v Joanne Lockwood>but you with the right environment. And I was. I always think about it as my

769
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<v Joanne Lockwood>favourite coffee shop and I tell the story quite

770
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<v Joanne Lockwood>often. I know what my favourite coffee shop is. Why is

771
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<v Joanne Lockwood>that? It's the service at the counter. It's the bean, it's the cup size, it's the

772
00:48:46.211 --> 00:48:51.148
<v Joanne Lockwood>flavour, the way they put the milk in, the little thing they put on top, the seats in

773
00:48:51.148 --> 00:48:56.013
<v Joanne Lockwood>the window, the sofa. How I get reward points. There's so many things around this

774
00:48:56.013 --> 00:48:59.353
<v Joanne Lockwood>coffee shop but I know it's out of choice of three coffee

775
00:48:59.353 --> 00:49:03.420
<v Joanne Lockwood>shops. I will always go there. And if I end up going to the other one, I

776
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<v Joanne Lockwood>go. It just feels it's not my place.

777
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Not, it's not the same.

778
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I was talking about the other one and it's. I always describe it that feeling from the sitcom, the Canadian

779
00:49:11.330 --> 00:49:15.930
<v Joanne Lockwood>sitcom Cheers. The bar where everyone knows your name, all the people that go there,

780
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<v Joanne Lockwood>it's their happy place, they know that they're going to do have a great

781
00:49:20.490 --> 00:49:23.770
<v Joanne Lockwood>time. And I'm not saying work should be a playground, but work should

782
00:49:23.770 --> 00:49:28.700
<v Joanne Lockwood>be. Should boost you, enrich you and give you something back and you

783
00:49:28.700 --> 00:49:30.660
<v Joanne Lockwood>just know that it's your place, don't you?

784
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. Could not agree more. And I Think we in

785
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<v Amanda Rosazza>wanting to create that environment, you have to be prepared to do it one

786
00:49:41.460 --> 00:49:46.380
<v Amanda Rosazza>percent at a time. Because all of those things that you described about your favourite coffee shop, they didn't do that

787
00:49:46.380 --> 00:49:51.300
<v Amanda Rosazza>overnight, they had to stack the deck over time. And so many, especially

788
00:49:51.460 --> 00:49:54.970
<v Amanda Rosazza>founders, they want to create that now. I want that

789
00:49:55.050 --> 00:49:58.730
<v Amanda Rosazza>now. I'm like, yes, I know, and I love that you're excited

790
00:49:58.730 --> 00:50:01.490
<v Amanda Rosazza>also. That's going to take, that's a three year ramp

791
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<v Amanda Rosazza>up. And here's how we get there. Don't let the fact that it takes time to get

792
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<v Amanda Rosazza>there stop you from taking the steps to get there.

793
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, there's a coffee shop at the same chain and inside

794
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<v Joanne Lockwood>it's okay, it's fine. But outside, because it's on a high street, they've got tables

795
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<v Joanne Lockwood>and chairs on the outside, on the pavement and that's where people

796
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<v Joanne Lockwood>smoke. So people sit at these chairs, they'll smoke. They may have what

797
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<v Joanne Lockwood>looks like an aggressive dog or something like this. And you walk out and think, I don't want

798
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<v Joanne Lockwood>to walk through this hostile

799
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<v Joanne Lockwood>view that I have six foot of space outside the

800
00:50:40.660 --> 00:50:45.510
<v Joanne Lockwood>shop. It just feels hostile. So I go somewhere else. So whatever you're doing inside for your brand

801
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<v Joanne Lockwood>and values, you can turn people off with that negative impression

802
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<v Joanne Lockwood>when you first walk up. And I think that's, you really gotta stand outside your building

803
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<v Joanne Lockwood>and look in sometimes. What do people see?

804
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely, yes, absolutely. And outside your building could be your website,

805
00:51:02.830 --> 00:51:07.630
<v Amanda Rosazza>it could be how you're represented, you know, like on

806
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<v Amanda Rosazza>other platforms, in other

807
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<v Amanda Rosazza>environments. Think about the outside of your

808
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<v Amanda Rosazza>building. Where do people first find, find out about

809
00:51:15.650 --> 00:51:18.610
<v Amanda Rosazza>you? Where, where do they first explore what you're

810
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<v Amanda Rosazza>about? Absolutely. So crucial, so crucial.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>I can't remember the exact, the exact phrase, but it's about self awareness,

812
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<v Joanne Lockwood>it's. What do you, what do people say about you when you're not in the

813
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<v Joanne Lockwood>room?

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>And what do you want people to say about you when you're not in the

816
00:51:32.490 --> 00:51:36.610
<v Joanne Lockwood>room? You, if you don't have an opinion on that, how can you influence how you show

817
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<v Joanne Lockwood>up? If I want people to say, well, Joanne's amazing, she's

818
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<v Joanne Lockwood>fantastic. When I'm not in the room, I have to be that person when

819
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I'm not in that room. And when I'm in the room, and I think a business and organisation has to have,

820
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<v Joanne Lockwood>how am I seen when I'm not in the room asking the question.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly. And you can't decide, you can't be not all in on

822
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<v Amanda Rosazza>that. You have to decide and commit to what you're going to be

823
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<v Amanda Rosazza>and always be that.

824
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely.

825
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<v Joanne Lockwood>I know, I mean, there's some major global banks and there's some in the uk,

826
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<v Joanne Lockwood>obviously. And I know, because I know the leaders and the board, people like that, I know that

827
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<v Joanne Lockwood>they have this belief that they want to be the best, they want to have the best customer service, they want to be the best

828
00:52:18.690 --> 00:52:21.970
<v Joanne Lockwood>employer, they want to be on Glassdoor and all these kind of things and they want to be rah

829
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<v Joanne Lockwood>rah. And everyone loves them and wants to stay there forever. That's what they really, really

830
00:52:25.730 --> 00:52:30.250
<v Joanne Lockwood>want. But you have a conversation with an individual and their lived experience, their

831
00:52:30.250 --> 00:52:34.650
<v Joanne Lockwood>employee experience is completely different. And that's this massive disconnect

832
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<v Joanne Lockwood>in these layers of management where it just takes one supervisor, leader, point of

833
00:52:39.980 --> 00:52:44.820
<v Joanne Lockwood>authority to mess it up. And then my customer experiences suffers because I've dealt with the person

834
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<v Joanne Lockwood>that's having a bad day and that's not what the bank wanted, but it's what I got and

835
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<v Joanne Lockwood>that's where it messes up. That one person makes a difference to who you

836
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<v Joanne Lockwood>are.

837
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Exactly, exactly. To your point, like the solution to that

838
00:52:59.020 --> 00:53:03.700
<v Amanda Rosazza>isn't micromanaging our team, it's about having all of those things that we've already

839
00:53:03.860 --> 00:53:08.720
<v Amanda Rosazza>spoken about in place. So that one of my friends says, so that you can

840
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<v Amanda Rosazza>still do a great job on your worst day.

841
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yes.

842
00:53:12.800 --> 00:53:17.640
<v Amanda Rosazza>So that's. Yeah. So if you, if you have all of those things set up correctly on

843
00:53:17.640 --> 00:53:20.400
<v Amanda Rosazza>your worst day, you can still do a pretty good job.

844
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. And I always say to people, you have permission to have a bad day

845
00:53:26.480 --> 00:53:30.960
<v Joanne Lockwood>and you can, you can phone me up and say, I'm having a bad day,

846
00:53:31.200 --> 00:53:36.170
<v Joanne Lockwood>I need to go home. And you go, if you're having a bad day, please do go home

847
00:53:36.330 --> 00:53:41.290
<v Joanne Lockwood>and come back tomorrow when you're better. And rather than sit there and

848
00:53:41.930 --> 00:53:46.890
<v Joanne Lockwood>be bad with everybody else and feel worse, everyone should be allowed to

849
00:53:46.890 --> 00:53:49.930
<v Joanne Lockwood>take a bad day and be honest about

850
00:53:49.930 --> 00:53:50.170
<v Joanne Lockwood>it.

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00:53:50.170 --> 00:53:54.170
<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. Yeah, I know, I agree, I agree. And I think we have,

852
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<v Amanda Rosazza>in Australia, there's definitely, we joke about it, we call it the sickie, like the, the

853
00:54:00.320 --> 00:54:05.200
<v Amanda Rosazza>sick day, but everyone jokes about like, if you're having a rough day, you know, you

854
00:54:05.200 --> 00:54:10.080
<v Amanda Rosazza>want to take a mental health day, just, just take, take one of your sick days and, and, and everybody's

855
00:54:10.080 --> 00:54:12.760
<v Amanda Rosazza>better off when you just take that moment to step

856
00:54:12.760 --> 00:54:15.600
<v Amanda Rosazza>away. So, yeah, definitely, definitely agree.

857
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah. I've been self employed or a principal in organisations

858
00:54:20.520 --> 00:54:25.160
<v Joanne Lockwood>for the last 30 odd years, so I have, I have the privilege of being able to do that whenever I

859
00:54:25.160 --> 00:54:26.100
<v Joanne Lockwood>want. Want. But I.

860
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Right.

861
00:54:26.500 --> 00:54:29.500
<v Joanne Lockwood>I wake up in the morning, I think today's not a day where I could be

862
00:54:29.500 --> 00:54:34.460
<v Joanne Lockwood>productive. Let's either sit on the sofa, let's go for a walk, take the puppy out, do

863
00:54:34.460 --> 00:54:36.460
<v Joanne Lockwood>something else. Today is not my day.

864
00:54:36.460 --> 00:54:37.700
<v Amanda Rosazza>And absolutely.

865
00:54:37.700 --> 00:54:40.260
<v Joanne Lockwood>Yeah, we shouldn't restrict that privilege to just a few.

866
00:54:41.620 --> 00:54:42.900
<v Amanda Rosazza>Yeah, I agree.

867
00:54:43.220 --> 00:54:47.740
<v Joanne Lockwood>And people. Could people there provide you support? You can support that. So you've had a bad day, come back

868
00:54:47.740 --> 00:54:51.300
<v Joanne Lockwood>tomorrow. Can I help? What was the bad day? What can we do? Can we. Can we help you in the

869
00:54:51.300 --> 00:54:55.840
<v Joanne Lockwood>future? If you need some more help, let us know. If it ever gets too much, come and talk to

870
00:54:55.840 --> 00:55:00.120
<v Joanne Lockwood>me. We can deal with this. Not a problem, don't worry. That really opens up the conversation then, doesn't,

871
00:55:01.240 --> 00:55:01.960
<v Joanne Lockwood>does it?

872
00:55:01.960 --> 00:55:06.480
<v Amanda Rosazza>Does. And you know you want to. We always talk about that

873
00:55:06.480 --> 00:55:11.200
<v Amanda Rosazza>extreme empathy. So, you know, sitting down with them and just listening, having that

874
00:55:11.200 --> 00:55:15.920
<v Amanda Rosazza>curiosity, no judgement, just saying. I think Brene Brown says,

875
00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:20.240
<v Amanda Rosazza>I'm not sure what to say, but I'm glad you told me. That sort of mentality, like, I'm

876
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<v Amanda Rosazza>not.

877
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Not.

878
00:55:20.680 --> 00:55:24.480
<v Amanda Rosazza>I'm not judging you. And when they're ready, let's move into solutions

879
00:55:24.560 --> 00:55:29.320
<v Amanda Rosazza>mode. How can we work together and move past this when we're ready to move past

880
00:55:29.320 --> 00:55:33.160
<v Amanda Rosazza>it, depending on, you know, what is going on and where they're

881
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<v Amanda Rosazza>at. So, yeah, definitely.

882
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<v Joanne Lockwood>If you're a manager or a supervisor or leader, listening to this episode,

883
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<v Joanne Lockwood>and this is news to you, you must think, wow, this is a lot of effort, a lot of cognitive brain power

884
00:55:47.040 --> 00:55:51.270
<v Joanne Lockwood>here to navigate this, but we touched on the plasticity and the learned

885
00:55:51.270 --> 00:55:55.790
<v Joanne Lockwood>behaviour. You can compress all of this into your new standard operation, process

886
00:55:55.870 --> 00:55:56.830
<v Joanne Lockwood>yourself, can't you?

887
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely, absolutely. And the important thing is, like I said earlier,

888
00:56:03.550 --> 00:56:07.790
<v Amanda Rosazza>just 1% each time. Choose one thing to focus on that week,

889
00:56:09.070 --> 00:56:14.030
<v Amanda Rosazza>implement it, get that right and then bring the next thing in in and the next

890
00:56:14.030 --> 00:56:18.390
<v Amanda Rosazza>thing in. If you try to do it all at once, you'll decide it's all too hard and you won't do

891
00:56:18.390 --> 00:56:21.670
<v Amanda Rosazza>anything. But if you just pick one thing to focus on that we've spoken

892
00:56:21.670 --> 00:56:26.590
<v Amanda Rosazza>about. Game changer. And then you can add the next layer and the next layer and in

893
00:56:26.590 --> 00:56:29.229
<v Amanda Rosazza>12 months from now, you'll. You'll be a completely different

894
00:56:29.229 --> 00:56:29.630
<v Amanda Rosazza>leader.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Amanda, this has been an absolutely fantastic conversation. How can people get hold of

896
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<v Joanne Lockwood>you?

897
00:56:35.390 --> 00:56:40.149
<v Amanda Rosazza>Yes. So you can. Best way to find me is on LinkedIn. Honestly, come and check out my

898
00:56:40.149 --> 00:56:43.704
<v Amanda Rosazza>LinkedIn profile. I'm pretty confident I'm the only Amanda

899
00:56:43.704 --> 00:56:48.039
<v Amanda Rosazza>Rosata. So. So come and connect with me on LinkedIn and we can continue the

900
00:56:48.039 --> 00:56:48.963
<v Amanda Rosazza>conversation.

901
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<v Joanne Lockwood>That's Rosa is R O Z. Sorry, R O S A T Z Z A

902
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Rosa O S. R O, S

903
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<v Joanne Lockwood>A. Oh, sorry, there's no T in

904
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<v Joanne Lockwood>it. I put that in there because I couldn't remember how to pronounce your name. So the T is my

905
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<v Joanne Lockwood>typo.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>No, no, no, no, no. It was to empower us to win at the

907
00:57:08.290 --> 00:57:11.330
<v Amanda Rosazza>start. See, it's all about. It's all about those hacks. Yeah,

908
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<v Amanda Rosazza>absolutely.

909
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<v Joanne Lockwood>Let me take that out. So it's pronounced with the Italian way as an

910
00:57:16.490 --> 00:57:20.050
<v Joanne Lockwood>Amanda. It is not the traditional way. Absolutely

911
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<v Joanne Lockwood>amazing.

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<v Amanda Rosazza>Nailed it.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>Thank you so much. I've loved talking to you and catch up with you

914
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<v Joanne Lockwood>soon.

915
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<v Amanda Rosazza>Absolutely. Thank you for having me. It's been a pleasure.

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<v Joanne Lockwood>As we bring this conversation to a close, I want to express my deepest

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<v Joanne Lockwood>gratitude to you, our listener, for lending your ear and heart

918
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<v Joanne Lockwood>to the cause of inclusion. Today's discussion struck a

919
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<v Joanne Lockwood>chord. Consider subscribing to Inclusion Bites and become part of

920
00:57:47.730 --> 00:57:50.690
<v Joanne Lockwood>our ever growing community driving real

921
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<v Joanne Lockwood>change. Share this journey with friends, family and

922
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<v Joanne Lockwood>colleagues. Let's amplify the voices that

923
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<v Joanne Lockwood>matter. Got thoughts, storeys or a vision to

924
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<v Joanne Lockwood>share? I'm all ears. Reach out to jo.lockwood

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<v Joanne Lockwood>lockwood@seechangehappen.co.uk and let's make your voice

926
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<v Joanne Lockwood>heard. Until next time, this is Joanne Lockwood signing off with a

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<v Joanne Lockwood>promise to return with more enriching narratives that challenge,

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<v Joanne Lockwood>inspire and unite us all. Here's to fostering a more inclusive world

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<v Joanne Lockwood>one episode at a time. Catch you on the next

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<v Joanne Lockwood>bite.
